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hi

my boyfriend has a brother who got engaged to a muslim woman

i always dreamt of a christian family

but now there are muslims in the family

i do not know if i want to marry him anymore

please help me see things more clearly

he convinced me that the age gap makes no difference

still, I am afraid that someday he will start looking at younger girls

I'm 28.

he's 24

we have the same values, the same career

he is very polite and smart

what is the right thing to do?

Please tell me what did he mean? does he want me to wait for him or to move on?

I asked him: do you want me to wait for you or to move on?

he said: you do not need everyone to love you. one man is enough.you need to have patience

then he went

I feel so confused. does he want me to move on or wait for him?

I separated from the first one because I simply was not attracted to him and he was not polite

I separated from the second one because he had different values and all he cared about was premarital sex

I separated from the second one because he wanted me to come to his house as the first date and I did not come because I preferred a public place. I did not obey and so he left

what can I do? why do I fail over and over again?

why does it feel that it is so hard to be loved

while others are loved everywhere they go

almost by everyone they meet

some people have visions and dreams

especially those who are very close to god

and pray daily

I ask because I had a vision about an important decision in my life

my heart says I should believe in it but my brain is confused

what is your opinion?

hi

when I first saw him I told him that to me he is like a brother

he said he wants us to be more than that

he promised to love me and be my friend

we planned two dates:

the first one I was there but he did not show up because his brother took the car.

then, he started to be on and off when talking on the phone

I asked him for eplanation and he said he'll explain everything on the second date

on the second date, he showed up but I did not because it was a hard day at work and I could not travel to get to him

he was very angry and we were separated. I told him to wait maybe it is a bad decision, but he said he is looking for something else

I still love him and I never stop having visions and dreams about him

usually my visions come true

one vision I had is that we are husband and wife

I prayed to understand because the vision is far from reality

but the answer was i should be patient

I am so confused. should I believe in visions or should I forget everything

hi

if a man chooses a wife who is 3 years older than him, do you think it works?

they have so much in common: the same interests, values, way of life....

she is my parents' favourite daughter.

she is very abusive and my parents always defended her

her wedding is after a week and I am not invited

she is their princess and I am not supposed to be at home

I told them that I can leave home for a month but I still do not

have a well paying job to live alone in the big city

everything there is very expensive

they wish I'll find a job and never go back home ever again

It seems I'll never have a wedding like her because my parents do not want me anymore

she is enough for them

do you think I should pretend everything is ok and come to the wedding?

do you think I should take a risk and leave home and never care if my parents want to see me again?

she is my parents' favourite daughter.

she is very abusive and my parents always defended her

her wedding is after a week and I am not invited

she is their princess and I am not supposed to be at home

I told them that I can leave home for a month but I still do not

have a well paying job to live alone in the big city

everything there is very expensive

they wish I'll find a job and never go back home ever again

It seems I'll never have a wedding like her because my parents do not want me anymore

she is enough for them

do you think I should pretend everything is ok and come to the wedding?

do you think I should take a risk and leave home and never care if my parents want to see me again?

hi

today I woke up to go to work

I went to the bathroom to wash my teeth

my parents' favourite daughter came and pushed me

to take my place, she called me names and threw things on me

my parents defended her and said: you are old enough you should leave the house

she has a wedding after 2 weeks and I am not invited ofcourse

my parents asked me to leave the house because I am not welcomed when they are celebrating the wedding.

I searched for a room to rent but they are very expensive

I still do not have a well paying job

what should I do?

hi

I am the eldest daughter

I have three sisters

ever since I became a teenager

my parents and my sisters do everything together and they leave me alone at home

they travel, go to weddings and parties, christmas evenings and everything

they also hide food and leave bread and milk in the fridge

when easter and chrsitmas come they go out and have fun and I stay alone

They critisize me and humiliate me and when I resist they kick me out of the house

when I meet someone who says he loves me it is hard to believe that there is anyone in the world who is capable of loving me because I saw how my parents failed to love me

how do you think I should treat my family?

can you call them a family?

he does not want me to talk to him ever again because I refused to use the camera on skype

we separated and now after 2 months I still think about him day and night

I do not like myself because I think I should move on but everytime I decide to forget him and find someone else, I have a dream someone telling me that he'll become my future partner in life

I feel I suffer so much

what can I do?

hi

I was on facebook and the brother of an old friend asked for my friendship

he is 4 years younger. he saw my pictures and asked for my phone number

he was so excited to meet me and we agreed to meet in coffee shop

he did not show up because his brother took the car

then he insisted to see me on skype but I refused because I hate cameras

he disappeared and came back after a month

the same thing happened. we agreed to meet but I could not come because I worked from 8 till 3 and I wanted to go home and not to take another bus to come to his house

he called and was so angry then he insisted to see me on skype

again, I told him I hate cameras

then he broke up with me saying that we have different ways of thinking and he is looking for something different

I want to forget him but I still have dreams and visions of us having a family

at the same time I think this is crazy because he is younger and does not want me

but I feel he'll come back

what do you think?

my friend is a nurse and she started talking to a guy on facebook (a nurse too but in another hospital)

he was very polite ,caring and nice. They sent pictures to each other and decided to meet.

he invited her for a coffee at his house. when she told this to her friend, she asked her: what can you do if he rapes you? and so she decided not to go. The guy got very angry and broke up with her

did she make a mistake?

what if he does not keep a promise

or say white lies

this morning I decided to add as many friends as possible on facebook

I still did not do it

I have only 70 -the people I know

what do you think about this change?

hi

I graduated from school 7 years ago. This year I added one of my classmates on facebook and we started talking about what we do in life. He asked if I am in a relationship and I said no.

Then he said that he wants to talk about private things so he can know if we have chemistry because he thinks I may be the one for him. It was ok for me to talk about anything but I did not accept to do the things he asked me to do (sensual things) I told him that we are not even friends and such things are only for married people. Then when he knew I am willing to stay a virgin until marriage he stopped calling

did I fail in this relationship?

what was the right thing to do?

hi

two months ago, I talked to a guy on facebook , he was happy I did not have a boyfriend and asked for my phone number. We talked on the phone and I loved his character and everything ha said about himself and he was very polite. Then he invited me on a date and he did not show up because his brother took the car. he apologized and wanted to see me again but it was night and I said that it is too late today maybe tomorrow. Then he disappeared for a month though I tried to call him he sent a message and said dont worry I am ok. After a month I asked for explanation but he said we better meet tomorrow and he'll explain everything. The problem is that it was a hard day at work and I did not want to go and see him after work and so I went home. he was upset and wanted to talk on skype but I told him I hate cameras and so he said we better not talk to each other again.

did I do something wrong?

would he come back?

should I forget about him?

hi

last week a guy asked me to give him my number

he said he is attracted to me and wants a serious relationship with me

we talked every day at 7 p.m.

he asked to see pictures of me

he was interested in who I am and wanted to go out with me for a date

we agreed on the time and place

I went there and while I was waiting he called and said that he cannot come because

his brother took the car. He called me later and said he'll take me to a much more beautiful place

the next day, he called and we talked about what I can let him do in a relationship with me

and I told him that I am catholic(we can kiss, hug ,hold hands but no premarital sex)

the other day, he did not call so I called him and he said he is busy and he'll call me later

but he did not call

he disappeared

I sent him sms and asked him if he is ok

he said yes

I asked what happened

he did not answer

what am I supposed to understand