I failed in all my relationships this year. what can I do?

You may be "failing" because you go out with someone once, and decide it's a relationship? I'm not sure, you didn't say but when we have a date or two with someone, we need to observe them carefully to decide whether we have chemistry with them, and if they are a potentially decent person in our eyes. If not, MOVE ON!

It's not difficult to tell, on the first and second date, if a person causes us discomfort and if we are not attracted to them.

If you're not attracted to someone, and don't feel chemistry, there is no use taking them on as a boyfriend. And i'm sure if he wasn't polite, you figured that out on the first or second date. These are two reasons to stop seeing them.

If someone asks you to do something you're not comfortable about (such as going to their house), and they either get upset or demand you do, this is another good reason to move on.

There are hundreds of reasons to move on, and we all have our own ideas of what these are.

Just because you meet a guy and go out with him once or twice, doesn't make it a good idea to continue seeing them. ANY discomfort, even a tiny bit, is the first sign he's not for you.

You are not "failing", you haven't met someone who seems compatible. People who we connect with don't grow on trees or fall from the sky.

I would say its time to sit back and think hard about what you really want in a man. Be straight up with them, tell them at the start that you are not into sex right away and that you don't want to rush to their house on the first date. be open and honest. there will be that guy that will stand up and say he still wants to take you out, then go for him and see where it takes you! this way it doesn't waste your time not your dates time if one side is after something the other isn't.

You are not failing at anything.

You didn't have "relationships". You met a couple of guys you didn't particularly like. Heck, they weren't polite, they were pushy, the last one was a total jerk, maybe the first one too.... so GOOD for you for not seeing them anymore. Keep your eyes open, look for better guys, and keep dating. Someday you WILL have a "relationship"... when the time and the right guy comes along.

Stop thinking about relationships. Life is about looking forward to each breath and enjoying every moment with the people around you. Stop thinking about what you can do to make things better for someone you haven't even met yet. Don't waste your time on that, you don't need to. You are honest. You are an independent woman. You are strong. Those are valuable traits. If you can't find a balance yet, find happiness in something else- a sport, a hobby, a study, music, better yourself. Naturally, you will find someone who you don't need to adjust to. Don't force it :)

it sounds like you made good choices

so

personally

i

would not call you a failure

know that tomorrow is another day

and

you are learning something about yourself every single day (like what you like in a guy, what is a line in the sand type of thing, what you won't tolerate, etc.)

take this learning experience and grow with it

peace

Well you have to find someone that your really interested in try to see if they have a good or bad personality and try to find things in a guy you are looking for