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do you think my sister's wedding is going to ruin my life?

she is my parents' favourite daughter.

she is very abusive and my parents always defended her

her wedding is after a week and I am not invited

she is their princess and I am not supposed to be at home

I told them that I can leave home for a month but I still do not

have a well paying job to live alone in the big city

everything there is very expensive

they wish I'll find a job and never go back home ever again

It seems I'll never have a wedding like her because my parents do not want me anymore

she is enough for them

do you think I should pretend everything is ok and come to the wedding?

do you think I should take a risk and leave home and never care if my parents want to see me again?

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  • vor 8 Jahren
    Beste Antwort

    I thought you were troll until i read your other posts.

    when are you going to get out of there? go to an aunties house, a friend's house, a violence shelter

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    hun, if you're a 27 year old teacher, you need to get the hell out of there. what's your problem? counseling now.

  • vor 8 Jahren

    Stay at home until you are on your feet. Don't let them hustle you out the door. You don't want to be sleeping on the couches of friends or in someone's bed because you can't support yourself.

    Are you sure you are not wanted at the wedding? Invitations are rarely sent to siblings residing in the bride's parent's home. If you know that she doesn't want you there then do not attend. Don't be a drama queen, just plop down in front of the TV or computer. Be polite and in the background.

    Once you are on your feet, move out. I very much doubt that your parents do not love you. It's possible, but it seems more likely that they are unthinking. They may have unresolved issues in their lives that have affected their parenting. You can't know what is motivating them to be the way they are because you aren't privy to evrything in their past and you don't know what is going on in their heads.

    It seems to me you could use some emotional support, someone in your corner. If there is anyway you can get free counseling, please seek it out.

  • Anonym
    vor 8 Jahren

    Talk to your parents and your sister separately. Ask them each to tell you honestly what they want you to do. If they want you gone, leave them. Carve a better life for yourself. Be surrounded by people who treat you with respect.

    Quelle(n): Humble opinion
  • vor 8 Jahren

    Your sister sounds like a BRAT...and I think you should leave home and make them sorry they ever wished that on you....I feel so sorry for her Groom.

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