Tsubaki Rose

Okay so me and my crush dated for a week and we decided to stay friends ( it was mostly his idea). After a few weeks I noticed my number was blocked and so I kept trying to talk to him, but my texts would never say "delivered ". Then I confronted him on snapchat and asked him " why did you stop talking to me?" And no response. A few weeks later, he made a playlist on Spotify and all the songs were like " I regret leaving you, I'm going to be with you again, I miss you and I love you". Then when I followed the playlist he added more songs and the new songs were like " I want to be with you, but I'm a little too late", " show me what I've been missing", " oh my love I seen you've gone. How could we lose control?". I'm just overall confused because he sounds like he wants to communicate with me, but I don't understand why I'm blocked? If I confront him what should I say?

So my ex made me a mixtape and all the lyrics go like :

"tell me that you're leaving me and that I don't mean anything to you"

"I wanna swim away but don't know."

"It's midnights late reminder that I lost the one I love"

"There is a possibility that we will make it through this. Everything you are I am wanting"

"Give me a chance to see what you have to offer"

"I'll be gone in a matter of time, that's the price you pay for regret. We could have made it in a different world"

"I wanna take the train with you"

"We got to move it, tell me the fire is out"

"We need to go back to where the magic grew. All I need is you"

"Seasons are changing, please stay the same. It's hard to end this way. What am I saying? Just fade"

"Nothing's fine, but I will get over you. Please just tell me I mean something to you. I'll hold you in my arms so tightly"

I lit a blue candle for truth and healing; I am in a situation where I am being misunderstood. Anyways I lit a glass encased candle a few days ago and it finished.

The glass- the very top was dark soot and throughout the rest of the glass it's like a grey- ish white color. On one side of the candle there is what looks like a burn mark on the glass.

The flame- it was steady most of the time and towards the end of the process, i saw more blue in the flame. The candle wick had knots on it ,during the middle of the candle it kept going in curls/ circles. At the very end the candle split into two flames for a few minutes and merged into one big flame.

I lit a blue candle for truth and healing; I am in a situation where I am being misunderstood. Anyways I lit a glass encased candle a few days ago and it finished.

The glass- the very top was dark soot and throughout the rest of the glass it's like a grey- ish white color. On one side of the candle there is what looks like a burn mark on the glass.

The flame- it was steady most of the time and towards the end of the process, i saw more blue in the flame. The candle wick had knots on it ,during the middle of the candle it kept going in curls/ circles. At the very end the candle split into two flames for a few minutes and merged into one big flame.

Okay so there are these two guys that like me and They are best friends( carl and shane). Me and Shane like each other a lot. Shane never knew carl liked me; carl knew Shane liked me a lot/ wants to date me. Carl told both of us that we didn't like each other so we stopped talking for a bit.

In that time, carl kept asking me to be his girlfriend/ flirting with me. He knew Shane still liked me.

Me and Shane started talking again recently about why we stopped talking, and I told him that his best friend was flirting with and trying to date me. I felt kind of bad when I told him because he was hurt and he doesn't want to talk to him and that was supposed his best friend. Idk. Should I have told him? What would you guys do?

Okay so my ex boyfriend broke up a few months ago, but we decided we were going to be friends. I was the one that always texted him first. He never went out of his way to text me. I stopped talking to him for a few weeks because of stress and I wanted to see if he would actually talk to me on his own. ( he didn t)

I noticed a few weeks later the playlist he made for me was deleted and he unfollowed the playlist I made for him. I thought it had something to do with the song choices ( some of them were breakup songs). I only put those few breakup songs on there after we broke up because I was hurt. A few days after he deleted the playlist, I tried to talk to him and I said " hey how are you doing? Sorry I haven t talked to you in a few weeks I have been stressed. He never responded to me. I kept asking my friends about the situation and they told me I deserve better and that they think he is seeing someone. i got drunk and unfriended him and then i tried to add him back( idfk).

my brother is 25 years old. he doesn t do anything besides smoke, drink and sleep. he doesn t have a job and and he failed out of college. he cusses at me and mom when we don t do whatever he says, he talks about hurting the dogs in our house, he talks about hurting himself too. He argues and yells with my mom everyday. he is bipolar, but he never takes his medicine. I hate being here at home because i don t want to hear all the fighting. my mom has thought about kicking him out, but she knows he has nowhere else to go. Even though she talks about kicking him out, she never does anything about it. i don t like being at home because i hate hearing all this yelling and fighting. is there any way for my brother to leave? is there any way we can get rid of him?

Me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday with a condom. I'm not on birth control. I saw him put the condom on, he pinched the tip and when he ejaculated it was in the condom, and when he held it, nothing was spilling out of the tip. He said the condom didn't have any holes in it.

I just want to know if there is a way the semen can spill out even though the condom didn't break.

there's this guy, he said he likes me.

He asked for a picture of me and said i am very attractive

He said he enjoys talking to me and he enjoys me

He flirts with me and calls me baby

But out of nowhere he just stops texting me everyday.

He apologized for being silent a few days ago. He said he had to work on something.

He continues to not text me, but yet I see him online on Playstation and i see he is playing with this other girl on PSN and i fear he might start liking her.

I also texted him sunday and we had the shortest convo ever and he hasn't replied

Why would someone act interested and then start ignoring you?

this guy and I were talking everyday for 2 weeks. He would tell me stuff like " i think you're pretty cool", "i miss you"," i enjoy talking to you" " you have hot legs" he used to call me "bb" and we would stay up all night playing games together. He is currently on a trip right now. And hasn't talked to me in a few days. I texted him and he hasn't responded. At first i thought he lost his phone. But my friend sent him a message and he replied right away.

Help?

this guy and I were talking everyday for 2 weeks. He would tell me stuff like " i think you're pretty cool", "i miss you"," i enjoy talking to you" " you have hot legs" he used to call me "bb" and we would stay up all night playing games together. He is currently on a trip right now. And hasn't talked to me in a few days. I texted him and he hasn't responded. At first i thought he lost his phone. But my friend sent him a message and he replied right away.

Help?

- We talk everyday

- i said something silly and he told me it was adorable.

- he played video games with me all night until he got sleepy.

- we met through a group chat with friends and now he chats with me separately.

- He jokingly asked if i would marry him

- He teases me

- he sometimes calls me "bb"

- he told me he wanted to talk to me before he goes to sleep

- We stayed up all night til 5 playing video games with each other

- he often tells me I'm cool

- He said he is glad he met me

- He said enjoys talking to me and playing video games with me

- he said on a scale from 1-10; an 8.5 is how much he misses me.

-he told me he loves me in a playful way

-We talk everyday

-i said something silly and he thought it was adorable.

-he played video games with me all night until he got sleepy.

- we met through a group chat with friends and now he chats with me separately.

- He jokingly asked if i would marry him

- He teases me

- he compliments me on how well i am at videogames

- if he replies late, he says sorry.

-We talk everyday

-i said something silly and he thought it was adorable.

-he played video games with me all night until he got sleepy.

- we met through a group chat with friends and now he chats with me separately.

- He jokingly asked if i would marry him

- He teases me

- he compliments me on how well i am at videogames

- if he replies late, he says sorry.

So me and my boyfriend got done seeing a movie. It was dark outside. I was driving and im not the best at driving and his music was too loud so i turned it down a little and he turned it back up. So i turned it off and he told me to chill and turned it back on. I turned the radio off and he started playing his music on his phone then i turned on the radio on ( forgot it was loud ) and it was loud so i turned it off completely. He made a big deal about me turning the radio off and i told him that he is distrscting me. He kept calling me bipolar and crazy and how stupid it is to turn his music off. I kept telling him over and over " you're distracing me" but he kept talking over me and not listen to what i'm saying so i cussed at him to get him to listen to me. And then he didn't say anything.

So we went home not talking to each other. He called me 17 times. Then an hour later we talked about what happened and he said "im not in the wrong. Its your fault. You're crazy. You're just making excuses"

And i say " you shouldn't distract the driver. You were distracting me."

I asked him " how would you feel if you were driving and i blasted the music and kept messing with you" HE did not respond and kept saying it was my fault.

We just kept blaming each other.

He then said i was controlling, but keep in mind that a few days ago he called me mentally ill just because I didn't want to debate with him. And HE always says "its my way or the highway"

Are these signs of a controlling boyfriend or am i just overly sensitive?

- Calls me mentally ill just bc i never want to debate with him.

tries to change my opinion. And says its the "right" way.

-calls me brainwashed bc i am a liberal and he is a conservative.

-he says i have a mental disease just bc i make a big fuss when i don't want to debate with him.( he tries to force it)

he says its his way or the highway.

Whenever i don't want to do something, he makes a deal and asks a million times why I don't and tries to convince me.

He says hurtful things to me and puts me down. He doesn't think its bad he calls it "the truth" and he thinks I'm too sensitive

Tells me to "woman up" when i get mad at him.

We got into a little fight. it was petty. He wanted to make me a drink and i told him him to not make it for me, because i don't want it. And we argued about it for a few minutes. It has been a day since we haven't spoke to each other. I wanted to speak with him today and see if he is alright. I called him and texted him and he didn't reply. All it said was "seen". I don't know why he isn't talking to me. It really hurts me because he would say " i love you" and would come in town to visit me and want to spend time with me and last week i had a conversation with his parents and they seemed to like me. I made a lot of effort into our relationship and i would do things for him too. EVERYTIME. I ask why he isn't talking to me he wont reply. It has been 2 days.

There is this guy that i have a class with, he sits behind me and when i pass the papers, he always stares at me. He told me i make him really nervous and he has a lot to say to me. He also said he would like to know more about me. Sometimes when i catch him staring at me, he smiles at me. I want to talk to him, but inam really shy and nervous. Should i tell him that i am really shy?

There is this guy that i have a class with, he sits behind me and when i pass the papers, he always stares at me. He told me i make him really nervous and he has a lot to say to me. He also said he would like to know more about me. Sometimes when i catch him staring at me, he smiles at me. I want to talk to him, but inam really shy and nervous. Should i tell him that i am really shy?