my boyfriend calls me crazy and thinks I caused this situation. Am i wrong?

So me and my boyfriend got done seeing a movie. It was dark outside. I was driving and im not the best at driving and his music was too loud so i turned it down a little and he turned it back up. So i turned it off and he told me to chill and turned it back on. I turned the radio off and he started playing his music on his phone then i turned on the radio on ( forgot it was loud ) and it was loud so i turned it off completely. He made a big deal about me turning the radio off and i told him that he is distrscting me. He kept calling me bipolar and crazy and how stupid it is to turn his music off. I kept telling him over and over " you're distracing me" but he kept talking over me and not listen to what i'm saying so i cussed at him to get him to listen to me. And then he didn't say anything.

So we went home not talking to each other. He called me 17 times. Then an hour later we talked about what happened and he said "im not in the wrong. Its your fault. You're crazy. You're just making excuses"

And i say " you shouldn't distract the driver. You were distracting me."

I asked him " how would you feel if you were driving and i blasted the music and kept messing with you" HE did not respond and kept saying it was my fault.

We just kept blaming each other.

He then said i was controlling, but keep in mind that a few days ago he called me mentally ill just because I didn't want to debate with him. And HE always says "its my way or the highway"