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? fragte in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · vor 4 Jahren

Are these signs of a controlling boyfriend? Or am i just senstive one?

Are these signs of a controlling boyfriend or am i just overly sensitive?

- Calls me mentally ill just bc i never want to debate with him.

tries to change my opinion. And says its the "right" way.

-calls me brainwashed bc i am a liberal and he is a conservative.

-he says i have a mental disease just bc i make a big fuss when i don't want to debate with him.( he tries to force it)

he says its his way or the highway.

Whenever i don't want to do something, he makes a deal and asks a million times why I don't and tries to convince me.

He says hurtful things to me and puts me down. He doesn't think its bad he calls it "the truth" and he thinks I'm too sensitive

Tells me to "woman up" when i get mad at him.

4 Antworten

Relevanz
  • vor 4 Jahren

    Definitely. He has a problem with you holding different political views to him, and instead of just accepting this, tries to prove that he is right all the time (and therefore that you are wrong). He puts you down and says hurtful things. He doesn't accept that he is responsible when you get upset at this. This is classic manipulative and controlling behaviour - ultimately he has very little interest in you and your wellbeing, and is only interested in his part in the relationship and making sure you don't upset him being the top dog who is always right and perfect. This is in no way a healthy relationship to be in, but you also need to be aware that it's not uncommon for manipulative people to try and stop their partners from ending the relationship, by threatening to harm themselves or others, or by trying to break down your confidence by saying no-one else will ever be interested in you. If this does happen, you need to ignore it, and remember that this guy doesn't love you, and isn't interested in you, and you can do so much better.

  • ?
    Lv 5
    vor 4 Jahren

    That guy has got to go...ASAP

  • vor 4 Jahren

    Yes, I suggest you Google the signs of a controlling boyfriend. It will open your eyes.

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