My husband does drugs with our son!?

your son is 26 - youre telling me you have lived with a drug addict for 3 DECADES and only NOW divorcing him? why didnt you leave earlier? your son grows up seeing dad do this sh!t and you wonder why he has addiction problems now? you are as much responsible for this as your husband is, because you stood there, watched it happen and did NOTHING. YOU ENABLED IT!

well its too late to go back in time now and undo the damage you both did to your son, but getting rid of drughead now is a start. when son is out of rehab let him live with you and this time, BE THERE for him and SUPPORT him. encourage him to rebuild the relationship with his kid and the mom. make sure hes in an ongoing support group.

Excellent that you are divorcing your husband. Smart move, from my viewpoint. It is also great that your son is going into rehab. What about when he gets out? There are so many kids who go through rehab and end up back on drugs. It is so sad but true. I suggest you find a sauna-based detox for your son. This is not withdrawal and it is not done with substitute drugs. It is purely a holistic way to flush out the system of stored toxins, including drug residues. Residual drugs are really important to eliminate from the tissues, because this is what contributes to cravings kicking in. A person can feel the effects of these drugs for a long, long time even after quitting them. Maybe this is what makes many drug rehab centers say that "once an addict, always an addict." Don't buy into this. The sauna detox uses nutrition, exercise and time in a low-heat sauna to flush out this poison. A nice comfortable regimen that really works wonders! I think with this detox that your son will be able to stay clean.

Telling the police will get your son n ur x husband both into trouble, so the best option is to get your son to the rehab and make him mentally strong. So that he will never be able to fall back to his dads tricks n be an addict again. You should try some serious rehab and counseling options and possibly take your son to a good psychologist. This is a total mind game and you need to be wise and make him mentally strong. and confident abt him self. Boost his personality and help him to feel good abt him self etc

Well there isn't much u can do . Its a harsh drug ur x husband don't realize he is hurting ur son . Next time u know ur ex husbands using call the cops tell them u know he is doing herion get him caught . Talk to ur son. Help nhim threw it don't ever leave his side . He will see his father is using him . Pray that the lorrd send u strenghth to get threw it . Figure. A way to put father in rehab too maybe it will help good luck

After rehab, and your Husband moving out, your son may focus more on being a Dad to his child.

Obviously until he his clear of drugs, there is little chance of him having access to the child.

Your son is 26, your husband is a grown man they are both adults I understand your concern but neither are going to change unless they want change, beggin and pleading doesn't do anything if change is not wanted.. Life lessons in life terms

Definitely go to Alanon meetings in your area. These meetings are full of people who have lived through similar stuff. They do give you a good idea of what to expect and also what can still happen. They strengthen your good boundaries with users, they give you a stability in your resolve. Go to a few meetings they are all over. I learned much with a kid of mine that used and she is still a problem.

It sounds like you've tried in good faith many times. Personally I would leave every body to their own accord and re-invent yourself because life is tooooo short! Theres plenty of guys out there like me with NO problems that want a relationship.

As a recovering addict, your son should not be around his father until his father gets clean.

His father is enabling him and slowly killing him.

Just tell them both that you will not be an accomplice to their depravity..and you will call the police. They NEED to be held accountable.