Megan

I am just writing to get everyone's opinion. Can a man fall in love with you without sleeping with you. I have a coworker that I believe is falling in love with me. What are the signs that he is in love or just lusting?

During the time we worked together we became close, shared some intimacy (not intercourse) but other things, I began to feel he really liked me. On our last day together it was kinda special he practically hung out with me the entire day just wasting time, I felt that he really did not want to let me go. Well, it's been over 6mths since I have seen him, he hasn't called, nor texted me since our last day together. I think about him everyday, but since I haven't heard from him I'm assuming he has forgotten out me. Our previous employer contacted everyone and offered us our jobs back, I accepted mine and from what I hear so has he. I probably should have mentioned he. A doctor and I m a nurse, and we have to work with each the other directly. My issue is once I return bak to work how should I act towards him. I will be excited to see him but since I haven't heard from him I don't know how I should act. Should I give him a big long hug, smile constantly, or just say hello and go about my day. Help.. I miss him so much, but I dont think the feeling is mutual.

Our interaction with each other have been cordial and business-like. The other day he called me for no reason at all he said he just wanted to hear my voice and to tell me he hopes I have a nice productive week. I said thank you, you do the same. I then said I thought you needed something else he laughed and said I'm an old man what could need from you. Nervously, I quickly changed the subject and told him I was having an issue with my air conditioner (I wasn't really, just wanted to change to the conversation) after a few words the conversation ended. Ever since he has called I been wondering was he trying to come on to me or was he just being nice. He is married by the way. Should I question him about the phone call or let it go, there is nothing he can do for me, I also don want to lose my condo, if he persistently calls me and expects me to give him more than I want to..

I work in a professional setting I am a nurse that works with a doctor on our team. Well, recently the company we worked for told us that they were relocating and we would be laid off. On our last day of work we spent the whole day together making sure that pts were stable and transferred to another physician. During this time my co-worker was asking me questions about me and my life which he has one in the past but never this intense. He every where I turned he was directly behind me.it was kinda like he wanted to tell me something but din have the nerve to. Here is the kicker, he is married he told me towards the end of the day that if he wasn't married he would peruse m to the fullest intent, but he can't because he is married, I just laughed if off even though I was confused as to what he was telling me. More towards the closing of he day he would rub my shoulder and say thing like I'm really goin to miss you, he even walked me to my car and said if there was anyway he could hire me m own at his personal practice he would he can't right now because the regulations I'm am not qualified to work in he field of expertise (I need a masters degree). He works and lives two hours away and asked me if I was every in his town I should stop in his office to say hi, I gave him a hug said good bye and left. Well a few weeks ago We recieved a phone call that the agency we worked for decided to keep our location opened and we are to begin work again on Monday, and surprisingly enough, my co-worker has decided he would return also, mind you he lives two hours away and the pay is really not that great for him to come this far to work. My friend that also works with says that he has noticed him around me and that it appears he is very intrigued by me he said he has noticed his actions for the past yr, I haven't. My friend says that he believes the only reason our coworker is coming back to work with us is because he wants to be with me. I personally get the feeling the man is I love with me, he compliments me, he always looking at me, he tells me that sometimes when he is having a bad day I made him feel better. AND NO WE HAVE NOT HAD SEX OR HAS IT GOTTEN THAT CLOSE. My question is am I wrong I know he loves his wife cause he hasn't made any sexual advances towards me and trust me I am hard to resist lol Jk. Is this man in love with me or just lusting, how should I react to him cause he really hasn't done anything I think out of line, I don't know, please share, I must say it is a bit exciting to see him again and I don't know why I feel this way, I don't why he would be interested in me I don't think I hold a candle to his wife she is a physician, beautiful, writes children's books, socialite I'm not on her level nor his...idk help

My husband and I met when I was 18 yrs old I am now 39. After a year of being together we had our daughter within a yr,then a son 8 yrs later. I love my kids but I'm not sure i feel the same for my husband. When we were dating I don't think I was ever attracted to him, during to first year we would argue mainly me finding simple things to argue about, because I didn't want to be with him I believe. I love him but I know I have never fell in love with him and now all these years I can't take this trapped feeling anymore, I hate everything about him, I don't like talking to him even and I know it's because I don't want to to be with him even after all these yrs I felt this way, he annoys the crap out of me. He is a good person but they are issue that has cause me to question why I am even with him.He does work and provide for us, no issues of cheating, tells me he loves me. Now, I know I am going to get those out there that will say I wish I had someone to tell me they loved me, well telling someone you love them is not going to make them love you no matter who you are, you can't make someone fall in love with you sorry! A major issue we have is my husband puts all the responsibilities of make this family run on me, it's like I am the man in the relationship. If we have an issue with money I have to figure out what we are going to do, he'll just brush it off like its not a big deal. What prompted me to write this is that our rent is do Monday we are only 100$ short I asked him is he had extra 100$ to put towards the rent this month, he just said not this week maybe next week. Mind you he knows its due Monday I am not one for paying my bills late but he he doesn't care that we don't have it, I managed to get it from a family member and I don't plan on telling him I have it, I don't if he would even ask if its paid. It's like this all the time me figuring out what to do and he sleeps peacefully at night only issue he is concerned about is not having sex. He can tell you when the last time we had sex but can't tell you when our car payments, rent , light bill, etc is due. He works two jobs and he does bring money in but something it's not enough and I need a little extra help hey it's America everyone has a bind once is a while. I feel that it we are a team we should both figure out what we need to do not just one, I'm stressed out. Also I failed to mention he has two jobs but the pay check to his other job is deposited into a separate account and he has it set up on his mothers address so statements and all go to her home, I just found this out a month age. When confronted he said he did it that way so he could make sure he gets his bank card, mind you his mom lives an hour away from us, and every dime I make comes home. The only time I get money from him from his second job is if I ask for it even then he gives me little, he says he wants to have money in his pocket, WTH! I got access to his separate account I haven't found anything usual in just him keep money from me. I'm at my wits ends, it's like I'm in this marriage alone. I haven't even scratch the surface.he doesn't buy groceries but the first one to the table to eat. He thinks because he works he is doing his share, hell I work to.i have to save for vacations, I have to make budget for up coming bills he doesn't. He is responsible of making sure the car insurance is paid found out it lapsed, I asked him about it he said he thought I was going to pay it when I got paid because he didn't have it,mind you he has been paying it for 6mths, now again I pay it because I don't want my daughter driving without insurance, again he doesn't care cause he knows ill take care of it with my one job compared to his two.I want a divorce so I can live the rest of my life happy, I don't ever want to marry anyone again, I think I'll be happier alone, people out there telling me I'm crazy I should be glad I got a husband that loves me, but sometimes love is just not enough, I feel so trapped if it wasn't for my kids I would run away, I told him I the past I want out he blows it off, I can't stand him