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Ladies: How important is it for your relationship that he is good in bed?

I have another question open at the moment, asking men what makes a woman a keeper.

Most of them say something like, this, and that, and, well, sorry, but she has to be good in bed, too.

I kind of had to laugh at that a little because I actually ended a relationship once because he sucked badly in bed and was totally resistant to any attempts of improvement.

Now I was wondering how other Ladies are thinking about that. Is it important to your relationship that he is good in bed? Or are you happily faking orgasms just so you don't have to be single?

Update:

PEOPLE! Are none of you actually reading the questions you are answering?

This is not about me or that boyfriend who didn't bring it (by the way, Danny-boy, you sound exactly like him), it is about the general importance of sex in a relationship from a woman's point of view.

I have long since ditched the guy and never looked back, so don't worry about my personal satisfaction.

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  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt
    Beste Antwort

    It's important. Orgasms enhance feelings of love and intimacy. And i don't want to be bored, so a good lover is extremely important. And if he is not a good lover, he should do his best to learn.

  • Vegas
    Lv 6
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    It really depends on the girl.

    I could live with a guy who was suckish in bed. Sex isn't even that big to me. Sure, I think about it a lot and all that and it'd be nice if he was, but if I really loved him it wouldn't matter.

    And faking orgasms is usually to make the guy happy. Not so we don't have to be single.

  • Anonym
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    I have to agree with Ashley, Communication is important also. And ladies, speak up in bed! If you don't like something say it, and if you do ,say that too. I personally love it when my woman tells me what she wants plus she knows I will do it and do it well for how ever long it takes!!

  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    I never fake. if he's unwilling to learn what works for me then he's history. His unwillingness to make the effort shows his lack of respect and concern for me and those are offences you break up for.

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  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    sex isn't everything in a relationship, im lucky to have any at the moment.

  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    just make him put your legs over his shoulders. thers no way he could suck at that. good luck lol ;)

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