Vegas

We’ve been together for five years, so I know things slow down a little bit over time. He’s a little older than me and before him I had only been with one guy. He’s a little more experienced than that. So for me, I don’t always know what to do to initiate sex. It used to be as easy as me sending nude photos while he was at work or even videos. Or just walking around in nothing but a T-shirt. It doesn’t seem to work that easy anymore. I always imagine scenarios that will really turn him on, like going in for a ******* when he’s relaxing after work. But he gets home and talks about how tired he is and I get discouraged. I know he’s attracted to me, I know there isn’t underlying relationship issues, I think I just need to spice it up. I’m looking for encouragement and ideas! Do you think even being exhausted from work that I should try to initiate some sexy time confidently? Are men okay with that generally or is saying “I’m exhausted” really a good indication that you just want to be unbothered? What are things I should do?

My boyfriend is in the Navy and has been stationed on Diego Garcia. I've heard so many things about it but I'm hoping someone with experience can clear up my questions.

We've been together for three years and I've always trusted him and been confident in our relationship. However, when he learned that he would be going away for a year, he had a sudden feeling of doubt in our relationship. We worked it out but now that he's gone, I've been worried all the time. So I have a lot of questions.

Are those stationed on the island allowed to take leave?

What are some good ways to keep in contact?

Is alcohol a big problem on the island?

What are some of the things that people do in spare time, not while working?

Is there any rule about male and female fraternizing? Are women allowed in mens rooms, vice versa..

How is the mailing system?

What can I do to be more supportive/what would you have liked from your spouse/SO?

Anything else that you can tell me about the island that I'm allowed to know, would be much appreciated.

I'm doing a project in my culinary arts class, where our teacher has asked us to pick a country and write an essay about certain aspects of the country. One of the things she wanted us to write about was what types of food the farmers raise and what types of animals they raise. I'm having a difficult time finding a document about these aspects, and hoped someone on here had enough knowledge about Hungary and could help me out? Thanks in advance :)

I just got this kitten yesterday around 8pm. He's six weeks old, and very shy. He love to cuddle, but you have to get him out of his hiding spot, and you have to be prepared to stay in one spot and not move. Whenever I try to feed him, he refuses and runs off. He wont take milk or water either. I know it's been a short time since I've had him, and the fact that he still hides and cries means he's very confused about the move. However, I'm worried because he wont eat or use his litter box. What can I do to make him more comfortable and eat?

I have wet cat food and dry cat food, and some treats.

I have two dogs, the same age. They're both a mix between a dachshund, a pug, and a lab. One was the runt of the litter and the other is a bit obese but about the normal size in the litter.

They were both spayed on Monday. At first they both seemed to be in pain and only wanted to sleep, barely eating. Now, the bigger one is more playful, attempting to eat (it's difficult to eat with the cone around her head, but we help her) and isn't shaking or anything. However, we have to encourage the littler one to eat, she mostly wants to sleep, and is always shaking as id she's cold.

I thought that keeping a blanket on her bed would help keep her warm, since she mostly cuddles with her sister as well, but it doesn't seem to be helping. Also, recently she was panting AND shaking, so I think it's more than just being cold. She also tends to cry a lot when someone isn't petting her or playing with her, but the only time she wants to move is when she is being walked.

I'm aware they should see a vet. The bigger one is going back to the vet this upcoming Monday, and my mother intends to bring the littler one along as well. But I would like to know if there's anything I can do to ease her pain in the meantime, or if there's anything I should be concerned about. Is this possibly something that is serious enough that I should schedule an emergency vet appointment?

Also, she's finished the pain medication that the doctor prescribed.

I can't remember who it's by, all I remember is the chorus, but I can't find it anywhere.

All I remember is:

"Cry baby

Cry baby, cry.

Chokin down your..

Cry baby, cry baby cry"

It's about a girl telling her boyfriend off because he hurt her and she's basically telling him to.. go cry..

My mom told me it was by 'Van Zant'. I'm beginning to believe there's two of them.

I believe the song is called 'friend'.

Some of the lyrics are:

"I remember the youth and the days gone by

and it hurts me to see the age in your eyes

oh, I wish I could turn back the hands of time

and do it all over again

my friend, oh, my friend."

But every time I look it up, I get this song: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMza7Gn5Wo0

Which is really annoying.

Can you help?

My boyfriend is in his fifth year of high school and starting college next year. We're very long distance, and our plan was that he would come to the states and go to college here to be closer. I live in Maine and he lives in Ontario, right close to Maine.

But it turns out that because he's from Canada, a school here would cost more for him. And the foundations of police training school he wanted to go to was like, 10,000$ a year. I could help him come up with the money this year, he could apply for a scholarship, has some money saved up, and maybe his dad would help if needed. But the next couple of years would be a struggle for us since I need a car and need to prepare for college as well, and have to start saving.

I know this is all very confusing. But the basic problem is that I don't want to do more long distance, when we had planned to be together for so long. I desperately feel like I need to be with him, but wont be starting college the same time he is, so I can't go there to be with him myself. He's now planning to take a year off before going to college and to stay here for a while, but I don't think I'd be able to let him go back.

Is there any possible way we could get help with the money? Is there something he could work out with the school, or the state?

And please don't make any bad comments about the long distance, say we should break up, or annoy me about how I met someone from Canada. None of that is the problem here.

Lately it's been in the 90's and near 100 degrees where I live. Just a random heat wave. Half of our school doesn't have air conditioning, so it's important that we find ways to cool off and stay cool throughout the day.

But we have this rule that if a girl (or guy, though guys usually wear longer shorts or pants) puts her hands down to her sides and the sorts aren't longer than her fingertips, they're too short.

I have about five pairs of shorts, and they're all basically the same length. Only about an inch too short for that rule. But I can't wear ANY of them, despite the heat, because they're too short. The vice principal was screaming at me today about it. And I mean really screaming. I guess she was mad because she tried to get my attention earlier, but I didn't notice, and she thought I was ignoring her.

HOWEVER. It's completely okay for girls to wear white skirts that you can see through, dresses with spaghetti straps (which aren't aloud) and tank tops (which also aren't aloud) and she wont say anything.

Plus I wore these last year and she didn't say anything. It's really irritating me, like I want to say something to her so she understands it's just TOO hot to be wearing pants, and all these other girls are running around in their more provocative clothing, but it's just fine.

I knew this guy in third grade, for about a year. Then I ended up moving a couple towns away, and we lost touch. But freshmen year (last year) he started going to the same high school with me. We slowly became friends, and he learned early in the friendship about my long distance boyfriend. He's been supportive, and been a good friend to me.

But then he started to like me, while being my friend. I don't know why or when it happened but he did. At first it was only a little, like he was going to get over it and not care. So I left it alone and we forgot about it, still being friends. But it kept getting worse and worse. Then just last week we went to the same family camp with our families, and him and I hung out pretty much the whole time. We talked a lot, about everything. Then he said he loved me. He started flirting a lot too. But he still wanted to be friends, he said, so I ignored it.

Just a couple days ago we left camp, and everything blew up. He got wicked depressed and pissed off, randomly. We've been fighting for like, three days about this. He's saying there's no way he can be happy unless we're together, but he knows I wont ever feel the same way. I feel horrible, like there's nothing I can do.

And now he's saying he wants to leave. He wants to go live with one of his family members in another town somewhere, because he wont be able to handle it when my boyfriend comes to visit, and wont be able to handle it at all when he comes to stay for good. So he doesn't want to be friends and he doesn't want to be around me. But at the same time he's saying he loves me and wants this to work.

What the hell am I suppose to do?

I have the Iphone 3g, 8GB. The older one, not the Iphone 4.

I used to never settle for less than what I want. And I don't usually want much. But if it meant something to me, I wouldn't give up on it. Now it seems like, with my boyfriend, all I want to do is make him happy. Do the things that make HIM happy, even if it's not what I want. A lot of times during fights I have to just shut up and adjust to what he wants, in order to make the fighting end. I know if I keep up trying to get what I want, neither of us will be happy. But it makes me feel less strong.

Breaking up with him isn't an option, so don't suggest that. I still love him more than anything. And he isn't a bad boyfriend. I just want to know if this is bad, and if I should mention it to him? Would it even help if I talked to him about it? I need opinions.

I know I don't :O

Sometimes I figure, when a person says "Boys only" they might be looking for bad responses.

To start off, I have a long distance boyfriend. Things with him are perfect and I'm not worried about that, except for the distance. It tends to hurt a lot when I'm in school, especially when I see friends with their boyfriends or girlfriends. I don't have any doubts about it, it just makes it hard. We talk every day, all day, and sleep on webcam, so I know things are perfect, I just wish I could flaunt him and such like other girls do. He's perfect to me, and I hate not being able to show it.

My second problem has to do with friends. My best friend and only close girl friend was just sent to an opportunity farm by her parents for some 'bad' behavior. (It's basically just to get her away from her boyfriend, she didn't do anything wrong) and I wont be able to see her or talk to her often, which will make it sorta depressing. I might be able to get over that, though, I just don't know how or when.

All my other friends are guys. That may sound bad, but I don't get along with girls very well, they tend to hate me after a while. But the problem with guys is that we can't be friends long before they say they like me, and then hate me because I don't like them back. So I tend to gain and lose friends fast.

Then there's this girl Sara. We used to be best friends for years, until we hit high school. Now she kinda thinks she's better than me, she's very materialistic, boy crazy, and all that. I understand that, but she also kinda makes things depressing because she's ALWAYS shoving the fact that her and her boyfriend can do things together in my face. She doesn't approve of my situation.

And last but not least, school is just hard in general. I get put in high classes and so I have to work really hard to keep up with everything, including the boyfriend and friends, and my job, and sometimes it just gets to be too much.

I just feel like dropping out. Like calling quits, saying I can't do it anymore. I want to give up and avoid the pain. Or move to another school (if there were any close to me) start over, and yeah. But it just seems like there's nothing I can do. I'm stuck here, it's like a jail, and I don't know how to handle it. It makes me depressed. It's not like me to give up or to not be able to handle things, and plus, I feel like I have a whole future to worry about, so I can't give up, but I just don't know what to do anymore. I need help. Anything anyone can tell me to make it better?

The only job I've had, that isn't really considered a job, is when I worked for my dad and his cleaning business. It was when I was really young. But I made money and all that, so I considered it a job at the time.

Anyway. I'm very confused about how I'm suppose to approach this. I don't have a resume. Everyone says it's better to have one, which I know I can make online (though I'm having a hard time finding a good example), but my parents are saying I probably wont need one since it's my first job?

Also. If a store says it's hiring, should I walk in and ask to speak to the manager, or should I ask the person at the front register about the job?

My other question is: I'm open to a lot of jobs and getting experience in the working feild, but at some point in my life, the main job I'm looking forward to involves culinary arts. So if I put that on a resume, but go in for a job at a clothing store, would that look bad? (I can't yet work with food, until I'm sixteen, so clothing stores and such are my best options)

I was planning on going tomorrow and checking out the strip mall that just opened in our town, there must be places hiring. But I just have no idea how to approach this. I don't often face things where I have no idea what I'm doing, so I really need tips and suggestions about how to do this so I don't go in looking nervous and like I don't know what to do. I can act confident, but I'd rather not look and sound stupid.

So there's this small bump on the right side of my neck. There's no color to it, it's just a bump. The bump isn't really moveable, but it's not firm either. I've had it a month or two, and it randomly got bigger a day or two ago.

Now, the right side of my neck feels sore. It stings to be touched, and looks like it may be slightly swollen. Also, my throat on that side burns a bit and my ear on that side hurts.

I know I should see a doctor, I'm going to talk to my mom about it again in the morning, but I want to see if anyone has any idea what it is, first. Also, it's only on my right side. It kinda feels like something in my head is fuzzing up...

So basically, do the bump and the symptoms have anything to do with each other? Could the bump be a cyst? Is the bump even important, or are the symptoms more to worry about?

My best girlfriend is always too busy with her boyfriend, always. I try to be polite, and don't talk to my boyfriend when she's around so we have our time, but all she EVER talks about is him, and she always ends up too busy with him to talk to me or anything. We JUST recently got out of a fight about this and I don't want another to start, but I'm sick of it. She's been with him about a year and a half (on and off, so they only count it as a few months) and being in a long distance relationship for a year, I know how it feels to only want to be with him all the time, but she's making me feel unimportant.

The reason this makes me most mad is because once the summer started she was sent away by her parents (mom and step-dad) to this place that basically keeps her grounded all the time and is suppose to straighten her out. So I haven't heard from her at all. Then she was aloud to go home because she's going to camp soon, so she went to her boyfriends house and while there she called me. She made it seem like she wanted to talk to me, but the whole time she was talking to matt and not listening to me at all.

What am I suppose to do about this so she finally gets, I don't wanna be second best?

So I'm in the predicament where my boyfriend tends to go out of the country and I HATE not being able to talk to him much. We think it'd be better for both of us if we could text, but I can't find plans on AT&T that have international calling/texting. Is it any different for the iphone? Are there any different plans for the iphone?

Btw, I plan on getting the Iphone in the next couple days as an update.

I noticed that if I sit with my legs folded, or crossed for ten minutes, or more, my knees will sting really bad when I bend them, or outstretch them in any way.

I'm only fifteen, though, and don't really understand how I am having joint pains.. And I know they aren't growing pains.

I've had it for months because I do a lot of typing. It was set off when my friend accidentally hit my hand. My parents wouldn't bring me to get it checked because they thought it was a sprain and that it'd get better.

Anyway.. it's in my right arm and I'm right handed. I'm slowly learning to become ambidextrous, but with all the schoolwork and everyday life where I kinda NEED my right hand, or both hands, it's hard not to use it.

I let it rest for three weeks, and tried writing with it (found that pens are easier than pencils). It was fine so I tried typing (as we do most school work on laptops) but the pain has returned. Now, I'm also in gym, where I have to use my hand a lot, and I fear my hand is getting stressed by gym.. but if I don't participate, I don't pass.

Anyone have any tips? Anything to make the pain go away, what I should do to help heal it? anything? Could it not be getting better because we didn't diagnose it soon enough? Help please.