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Bethany I
Bethany I fragte in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · vor 1 Jahrzehnt

Why did my boyfriend lie? (adults only please)?

My boyfriend lied to me about spending time with another female (whom i've met). I do not have a problem with him having female friends and I know he loves me very much. Why on earth would he lie about it? He swears nothing is going on so what is the problem? (He said, "I'm going to go work on my car."- when he was actually going to give her a ride to work, then pick her up afterwards-so what????!!!) why did he feel the need to lie then?

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  • junglegurl
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt
    Beste Antwort

    he prob lied because there is something going on that he would not want you to know about. if you are in a good and trusting relationship and you really don't give him crap for having female friends then there would be no reason for him to lie other than there is something going on that is not totally platonic.

  • melhakim85
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    Because he may have been afraid of how you would take it. I know he shouldn't lie... but I think we are all guilty of lying at times when we think it could avoid a problem or suspicion. There was a time I met an old female friend and I didn't tell my girlfriend because I didn't think it was necessary for her to question adn think: Could there be something more? When in truth, it really is nothing. If you are truly okay with it though, he should be able to talk to you. But maybe you are giving the impression to him (through your actions) that you are not.

  • Like a star
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    Because he probably thought that you would be upset about his taking time away from you to drive some other woman to work. It still sounds a little fishy though...i trusted my ex 100%, he was hanging out with a married woman from work. Turns out they were having an affair behind everyone's back. Also, if you do research on cheating, not loving someone is the least likely scenario as to why a person cheated. Talk to him about it, if his answers don't sound right, i would definitely suspect something.

  • Dan
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    He lied because women like to say they dont care when they really do so its easier just to lie and save yourself a future arguement

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  • Dave87gn
    Lv 7
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    If he isnt cheating. He thought there was no reason to get your mind going thinking about it, so he just left it out. Thinking no harm no foul

  • Anonym
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    He already has you wrapped around his finger, all he's doing is working on wrapping up anotha finger,secretively that is..

    Deception is the number one cause for infidelity....

  • Eastern C
    Lv 4
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    the excuse from him is he don't want to upset you, other part is he is trying with her. You are an adult and you know that is excitement for him.

    Share your unhappiness with him at lease to let him know.

  • Anonym
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    Maybe he feels you may not like it, sit down and have a conversation with him

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