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I know this man for more than 4 years, closed friend of mine and I know he like me a lot, I start feeling chemistry 2 months ago and share more than before, however end up he disappear and not wanted to communicate anymore, why all men distance after when you start telling them they are right. If they don't want to start anything why they are being so pushy in the beginning.

I have a decent job and busy all the time, when ever I was calm, just like having coffer in cafe, stay in the house or lay in bed, I have so many thing to think off included all the pictures, I know I am the insecure type and not know how to erase this feeling, I suffer difficult in sleeping for almost 1 years and cannot be able to quit sleeping pill. I have took even i was in holiday to a decent place but one I am calm and relax, that massive insecure thinking plus the bad experience of my last broke up shown in my heart all the time, I have dream 5-6 times a night and not able to get into sleep. any advise

My ex is good man with good busy job, he start love the porn / orgy the past 2 years and getting very involved, he even join some web sites to chat and share with some other people in those lifestyle group without my knowing, pretend single, shave his chest to try to look attractive to some other woman. He is so normal and loving in front of me but lies with almost everything became a habit. It's the reason I left but I still cannot understand why he change to a stranger who I seem never know. Is he too bored or lonely, or desperate for something else, or is he too success so he cannot find any achievement that he can achieve more? He is in age 50

My ex is good man with good busy job, he start love the porn / orgy the past 2 years and getting very involved, he even join some web sites to chat and share with some other people in those lifestyle group without my knowing, pretend single, shave his chest to try to look attractive to some other woman. He is so normal and loving in front of me but lies with almost everything became a habit. It's the reason I left but I still cannot understand why he change to a stranger who I seem never know. Is he too bored or lonely, or desperate for something else, or is he too success so he cannot find any achievement that he can achieve more? he is in age 50

My ex is a good man, successful and attractive, we have happy time together but these 2 years he has been trying to date around without my knowing, visit porno web site and wish to do something extreme like 3some or group sex. I found out since a woman email me and thinks that she is the one and ask me to leave him.

The worse is he lies and almost everything included little thing like what he ate and what he is doing. We are both busy professionals and I am not a demanding woman. Some said I'm too careless because I never check on him.

1. he is 50 years old and will man change or having some special thinking in this age?

2. he has this sudden change in these 2 years and he seems like a different person that I never know him before, why?

3. he starts lie all the time included little things since 2 years ago, he tell too many lies even he cannot remember what he said before so I can tell the truth easily. why he act like this?

4. we never fight or what and I left him peaceful, I am sad because the one I claim closed who became the one I don't even know what is in his mind. does people change like this?

All answer is welcome and thanks

When I met my ex at work he is the smarter management who have confident / charm / good charactor. I change job and still in contact then we date.

1 yr later I found out his affair then also found out a lot of lies he is been telling due to not to get in annoyance from me or other women,

We broke up some times later becuase there is couple affairs he did and I don't see he will change,

the worse is he keep on lies and almost everything little thing like the food / trasport / the worse is his arrangement of timing and plans. He may not aware his lies and most lies are not harmful, just annoys my since I know it is a lie. You can imagine most lies are not harmful or intent to cheer soomeone cheer or nothign in relate should be use,

I know it can be lie habit or pathologically liar, what makes a grow successful man sudden change and because a person who take lies in habit, when come to his self esteem, he is a very successful man crop with stress like what we did almost everyday.

What he change to another person in such short time no sudden change. sudden failure or so. Other the big thing about the past few affairs I dont see there is big one harm, all related in some small one with nothing affection.

why he sudden change? he can be pathological liar but why it make him change like this?

My bf lied almost everything, something about his affair and I understand but something is just normal life like the food he ate / the work / friends, etc. I don't know if it is his intent or he being defensive, I feel like lies became his habit or something to make him feel better.

His lies contain a lot of things, some brag about work to makes him feel better, some about his emotions, some about his family and some about nothing in related such as very little things.

I believe that he was not aware in some lies so I can tell the truth easily. I heard about the pathological liar, how I can judge this? what is the causation? how to improve it.

Thanks for all suggestions.

My bf cheat on me and eveytime he confess so I forgive him, early of the year we had big fight 'cause of his lies and we seperate for couple months, now when I try to forgive him he cheat on me again....I know he don't deserve anything and my heart was broken in pieces.

John gray said women need to put men in edge to make them treasure us, and why when they grab hearts they gone? Question is do u think cheater will always cheater and never can change? Why?

I love my ex crazy but I'm wondering if men really know when there is a woman they seems not too care are crazily love him?

We are together 4 years but he cheat on me since the first day we met. For him I guess I am nothing in his heart.

I disappear from his life and free him to have any woman he wanted. One part of me I hate him because he never treat me fairly, love me as same as I did, but in other part of me I still love him very much, missing him and think of him constantly. Other than my busy job, all the remaining time I had him in my mind no matter when and where, no matter it's already one year.

Is that human nature, that is so easy to say but difficult to let go someone who hurts you that much.

I met him at work, then friendship became relationship, we have strong chemistry and survive from a long distance for 4 years, we plan a hawaii holiday and before the flight take off there is a woman jump out treaten and accused me she is his wife, I was a victim as well and not blaming him for cheating, however, why men cheat, I really want to know

I had long distance relationship who I met him 4 years ago at work, as usual friend first then I fly to see him twice a year, now I found out he is cheating me but he never admitted. She might exist the entired time but he gave me a lot of dream of marriage and childred, etc. He know I know the truth but I act nothing happen, will guys feel guilty in someway?

I plan to leave him and from all cases I don't see we can be friends anymore because I am silence at the entired time. I know it's not important anymore but I want to know will he feel guilty and what is really in his mind.

My long distance boyfriend ask me to stop email his personal AOL email and he said he had email thrief, do you think it's true?

We don't have much conversation after 4 years, other than dirty talk, I mean very dirty erotic talk. I try almost everything to bring back the passion alive, travel / dining out / some place to hang around plus being a private lap dancer for him and else. I try to give all the best him but seems he is not happy what I've been done.

We are busy career couples and I was sort off frustrated 'cause I'm fine & powerful at work but a loser for a man I loved. How to make him love me in the way as same as before

Me & my bf together 4 years, we are very busy at work but since 2 years ago I don't know what else can I share with him in the conversation other than daily life at work. He shows no interest in my daily life and we talk less and it feels worse.

He used to be my good friend, my soulmate and my strength, now how can I bring back the passion alive.

I am in long distance 4 years, very long distance I mean, we start off very good and he is the one I plan to marry, however so many challeague interrupt included a sudden appear ex-gf baby / a woman claimed his wife (not baby's mother) / business trips, I find out myself but lies after lies,

I love him & think he is the one and now we are still meeting each other holiday twice a year. I forgive him time to time but I know there is no hopes because he don't tresure me at all and we will go to Hawaii next months. I plan to end,

1. should just a mail to express all my feelings to end, or 2. just disappear without contact?

3. I want to leave without hurting him, but I want him to know how bad he hurt me. and 4. I know he doesn't bother.

Any advise

My ex is good man with good busy job, he start love the porn / orgy the past 2 years and getting very involved, he even join some web sites to chat and share with some other people in those lifestyle group without my knowing, pretend single, shave his chest to try to look attractive to some other woman. He is so normal and loving in front of me but lies with almost everything became a habit. It's the reason I left but I still cannot understand why he change to a stranger who I seem never know. Is he too bored or lonely, or desperate for something else, or is he too success so he cannot find any achievement that he can achieve more?