My "friend" is extremely judgmental, rude, and prejudiced? How should I deal with her?

Question

She hates anyone who: 
- has tattoos 
- has piercings 
- dyes their hair 
- smokes 
- drinks 
- is over weight 
- Isn't her idea of "beautiful" 
- guys that have long hair 
- is transgender 
- is gay, bisexual, or otherwise 
- isn't republican 
And the list goes on

Her attitude can be described as "it's my way or the highway"

Her boyfriend, who is annoying and she claims she doesn't like him but is with him to "make him happy" (we know better) thinks she is perfect, and never calls her out when she yells at myself or her twin sister, and is only concerned about her and talks to no one else.

I honestly don't know what to do with her. I'm barely tolerating her at the moment, she is getting on my nerves and irritates the hell out of everyone around her

Advice please? I'll add more details if needed. We're both fourteen by the way, I'm two months older than she and her twin

Libraryanna · Answer

I don't believe you. It would be rare for twins to be total opposites. If she was just a friend, I would say have nothing to do with her.  You claim to be her twin, but two months older. You then talk about her twin separately from yourself.

You are a boring troll.

Instead, have a dialog with her to ask her why she seems to hate everyone. It usually comes from insecurity. People trash others so they can feel better about themselves. Talk about ways she can build up her self esteem.

S · Answer

well first I must sk how is she getting all this information about a person right off? sounds odd to me.

College Football Is Like Quidditch · Answer

You sound like a whiny bltch! Isn't the liberal motto let people be who they are?

My "friend" is extremely judgmental, rude, and prejudiced? How should I deal with her?

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