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DarkCc fragte in Family & RelationshipsFriends · vor 1 Jahrzehnt

Warning a friend to avoid him troubles - bad idea?

I got involved in a discussion about a friend from colleagues (friend is also a work colleague). They were too busy criticizing his behavior that they didn't even took the time to talk about it with him.

I informed him as I thought that would be like stabbing him in the back to hide the situation from him. That definitely wasn't my smartest idea as my friend first got quite angry and then decided to believe I was a liar. Do you think I should have kept my mouth shut?

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  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt
    Beste Antwort

    Well, first things first, Congrats! You did what a REAL friend would do. You told him, honestly, what people were saying from their own mouths. Now, you probably didn't mean for it to sound like drama fight. (You know, "He said, She said."). I think you were being considerate about his feelings and how the certain group should've asked him first.

    Why he didn't believe you..I'm not quite sure. But that's all you can really do without going overboard. So, now, I suggest just to watch over him. Don't get involved, just watch over him. Soon enough he'll realize or maybe in time he'll adjust what he was doing in the first place.

    But, you were a good friend and al least informed him.(:

  • Anonym
    vor 5 Jahren

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