Xeni Cae

This is going to sound self-centered, so I warned you. As Life makes us, I'm growing up and learning life lessons, but one thing I can never really find a solution to. People ask me to speak my thoughts, take action in them, and to spread my ideas around. When in a troubled situation, they ask me for multiple solutions from my view and, yet, I can never answer them. Not because I don't want to or I'm confused, but more like, I see myself as a spectator in the situation. Is it bad to keep my thoughts strictly to myself? Is it weird for me to just want to observe the people, reactions, and results of the problem? I keep my mind open to all of the possibilities and I consider other people's views. I feel that if I interfere or speak (much less involve myself), I'll ruin something important in that problem that could become a lesson to all, even me. I simply just like thinking of the people, views, lessons, and such. Not speaking.

Should I speak whenever called on in such a situation?

I wish to make small plushie items for my friends, but my sewing and stitching are far from decent.Would a store bought item by more... appreciative by my friends?