What would you do if you were married and fell in love...?

Marriage is forever, not until something better comes along. I would do anything possible to stay out of a situation like you describe. And if I had such feelings, I would stay away from the person until the feeling subsided.

hmmm, well, funny you should ask, I just asked a question on here and ym question was: my boyfriend lives w/ "his ex-wife" , and basically went on to say, should I believe what he tells me? And to me, from both sides, everyone is being deceitful, to each other, and to themselves. However, no-one is perfect, we're only human, we cant dicide our feelings, BUT, we can make decision on what to do with them. I sont think you're happy married to this person, and I can guarantee that if you're not happy, she probably senses this, or iis unhappy yourself, and what's the point of staying together if you're unhappy, you're just going to end up being spiteful towards each other, and never gettting to full-fill your needs. Even if you left her for someone else and it ended up Not working out, you're still going to survive, and you made the right decision in the long run, cause you werent happy. Yes, you took a big step and promised each other forever, but sometimes we all make mistakes.. Yet, first I'd figure out if leaving is what you really want, or maybe the marrieage just needs some help, All options should be considered, one more thing, Love doesnt keep people together, it's more than that, it's respect for each other as a person, and sharing the same goals in life, lifestyle (way of life, not meaning "status'), and I wish you the best, take your time to think, dont make impulsve decisions, talk to your wife, who knows, she may feel the same as you. Take Care.

Marriage and children are a bond- not to be forgotten nor broken simply becasue you think you might have a btter chance with someone new- all relationships have the same ups and downs- it depends on how much you put into it- weather it will survive or not. Your not putting into your marraige- therefore you were able to fall for someone else- which is wrong. Go back to your wife and work it out- she still loves you.

After much debate I would leave it all behind ... now figure out what kind of love it is? Ask yourself if you r not happily married could it be that someone eles is in the eyes of it all..? Have you really tried w/ the spouse ? Your answer should be clearer but remember you cannot make another love you in the way you wish...and you need good communication for this to even take place if it is even possible .. If that simple thing like communication isn't possible then WHAT do you really have?.. For real communication requires respect!!!

If you are already married, do your best to stay married. Go to counseling. Do things for her to fall in love with you and find a way to fall back in love with each other because if you bail with this marriage, you WILL bail again because you can not stick to commitments. That's my take and i am married, it takes work to stay in love but it is worth it especially if you have a kid or children together.

Probably is new and exciting and feels good now but chances are its not going to be and you will be going through a divorce with someone you will in the end want to be with and it will be too late. If you are going through marriage problems you two need to go get help to work it out and find out whats really going on. Focus on what you have not what could be with someone else that will end the end make you feel like you do now but worse with regrets. Yes from experience.

I know this is kinda old fashion but it is til death do you part get over it get counseling and love yes love your wife pretend at first if you must after awhile the love will grow haven't you ever wondered why actors after being in a movie where they are together well then get together

This is tough..and i think it is a personal decision coz people might give you all sorts of advice but u are the one who will make the final decision. u said you weren't happily married..that says it all...u need to find out what makes you happy...the one you are in love with, can he make you happy or is it just one of those things that disappear suddenly...u need time with yourself...be honest with yourself, plus your feelings and then remember life it too short to be unhappy and if you have found that happiness somewhere else, then maybe you need to go for it but then again, you need to find out why you are unhappy in your marriage. It really depends on so many things, or factors...what you are leaving behind..weigh all these issues then u will find the answer ...good luck...i've been in almost a situation like that so i know what you are going through. Goodluck

Not happily married? Cheating by any other name...is still cheating.

Irreconcilable differences. End the unhappy marriage, and THEN pursue the potential love interest.....do the right thing.

You know what the situation is that your in.. You make the choice. If there are no children that will be hurt or better yet if they know things are not good with your partner now and there is fighting it is better to end it. I belive that sometimes we do marry the wrong person and God only know's not us. Pray about it.. God will show you trust in him.