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My daughter is 17 and will be 18 in 1 and 1/2 month. she is 3 months pregnant. I am also a single mom with four kids. My 19 year old has moved out to college and now there is three. My 17 year old's boyfriend moved in, but didn't want to go to school or work so I said he had to or he would have to leave so they did about two weeks ago and now she is wanting to move back in. She has been somewhat of a challenge of the four children and have not made things easy for anyone. The younger two were happy when she moved out and is upset she might come back. Do I turn my pregnant teen on the streets or make the younger to deal with it..I am soo confused. I have slept on the couch so the kids can have their own rooms, I give everything for them include work two jobs....On top of it my exhusband that I was married to 14 years that left me for someone else 4 years ago (who he is not with anymore and hasent' been with anyone for over a year) wants to close off the back living room and live there to be there for our daughter (not to get back with me) we have become good friends. I do wish he felt more for me but he doesn't. And I have come to live with it. I have soo much going on and I have been through sooo much. I dont' know what to do..I think it would be nice for my daughters dad to be around but is that really fair to me? and then as for my daughter do I let her back in or tell her no hoping she don't end up on the streets or do I tell her yes but her boyfriend no in which she won't come back without and uses the baby against me...what should I do.

My now 14 year old wants to start playing the violin. There are violins out there for 140 - 200 which I thought was a good idea to spend until we know if she will stick to it. Can anyone suggest a good violin or tell me if it is a good idea to buy a cheap violin..meaning I heard the cheap ones don't sound well and are not easy to tune...help?

Going through a divorce (after 13 years of marraige) and it hurts like hell...I have one teenage daughter getting ready to jump and marry her boyfriend when she turns 18 next month (hes a bum), I have another daughter who just turned 16 and says and does everything in the book to disrespect and hurt my feelings and doesn't come one some nights cus she feels like shes young and deserves to have fun..I have dealt in the past with her with suicide, drugs, endless counselors, psychologists, psychiatric doctors, and before you say it, I do call the cops and they say as long as you know where she is or that shes ok then they can't do anything...I have two other kids that I love soo much but my son who gets frustrated and is starting to talk to me like his older sisters, and my youngest daughter who is soo hurt by the divorce...I barely making enough money to get by and my husbands measly $200 a month does nothing...I have gained sooo much weight I feel like I am wearing one of those fat suits but then reality hits when I look in the mirror...I eat from sadness or boredom you name it I am grabbing food to sooth the soul which I know I am doing it but just can't stop and I am soo unhappy with my weight, myself and my life...I feel like my whole world is upside down and I feel like I am being punished. I just wish my husband would come back and call this divorce off and that my kids would all understand I love them sooo much and that my older girls would start respecting me and know I am doing the best I can I work full time and try to deal with the mess they drag including a court hearing for my 16 year old this morning for stealing with her friends a tank top...All I have ever wanted was for a husband, and children and a home but I find myself divorced, disrespected and dumped on and feeling like total crap.. I can't afford the payment for any more counselors what should I do? How do I start over and pick myself up any suggestions. Please be kind I know you could say alot of dirty things but try not to I get enough of that right now and need some kind of guidness not put downs. Thanks

I feel like I am losing it. I feel like I have nothing left inside of me. My husband left me and I found out it was for someone at his job..then when I thought it ended it didn't and while he was back with me he was making promises to her and sleeping with us both...I filed for divorce and I am a wreck because I should not but I still love him. Meanwhile I am also trying to be strong and focus on my children because one of them is out of control and has done so much (tried to comit suicide, drugs, sex) she is 16 now and since has been diagnosed as bipolar. Counselors, school I have been through so much these past few years with her to try to help her but she seems to just really have soo much hate for me and says such cruel things and I love her soo much. She hates me for trying to keep her home and chasing away these thugs she seems to draw near her...Then my oldest is dating this loser pothead, she is soo smart and beautiful and he is such a loser. with no ambition..then I have two younger ones with soo much talent and I don't know what to do with it. I can't afford music lessons for them so they are teaching themselves and they are magnificent. I feel terrible. Then I work all day everyday to pay rent and bills because my soon to be ex lost his job and all of a sudden financially i am on my own. I am soo stressed out about everything. What can I do. I still love my husband and I love my children so much but focusing soo much on them and counselors and trying to get help for everything I am neglecting myself mentally and am about to lose it. I look back and I don't drink don't smoke and have done everything for my family and my family has fallen apart. Dance classes, cheerleading, soccer, vacations..it all just seemed to be meaningless to these people..I feel betrayed and just sick. What should I do how do i cope where should I go..I really hate life right now..

Which profession in your opinion is the best and why?

Which server is the best to find the most people for help and groups?

How do you go about finding a good legion that has vent/does pvp/is helpful does raids etc..

My daughter says her boyfriends family came here from Israel when he was very young. He is almost 20 now and says he is not legal but goes to college on some kind of Visa or whatever they use to be here and go to school. I want to make sure he is with my daughter out of love not to be legal. He says he has wrote people in the government for help. what can I do to help him. I would like to see him be legal fully on his own and get a drivers license and such. ....

I want to know which server is the best. What server are you on? What is your class? What do you like about it? I love my Spiritmaster. :) This game is the best. Anyone know of a legion I could join also and on what server?

Please someone know the name of the spanish song where the husband trains the dog to tell him about his wifes activities during the day cus he thinks she is cheating on him...its driving me crazy.

Video game makers have destroyed the opportunity to make better games with a couple of anime characters.....Are they ever going to come out with maybe a fighting game or a better game with anime characters that is worth playing with good graphics. Something online so you can play multiplayer and pick your character. This would be cool huh? FF is the only game that is an anime that is good they should make more like that with different animes right?

I am having such a hard time complete all the Gates quests in Nightfall in Guild wars. What are the best heros and npcs I should bring with me to kill these things and what build should I equip the hero's with.

Guild wars rules..oh and I tried guild wars wiki not very helpful in this..

Which Makeup guru do you watch the most on you tube?

It has been forever does anyone know when GW 2 is being released.

My husband left me about 3 years ago and came back about 7 months ago. 5 months ago I found out he had been sleeping with a coworker the whole time just before and after he left. I was so blind. My whole life all I ever wanted was a home a husband children and to live happy. I don't care if it was in a shack I just want to feel love. My husband cut ties with this woman shortly after I confronted them both and asked for a divorce. I can't seem to get the trust and respect back I had for him and he has not once said I love you to me. Our sex life consists of me pleasing myself and then pleasing him. I know I should get divorced but I am afraid of being alone which I know sounds petty and weak and stupid. I am now suffering from low self esteem and depression and just wish I could disapear. How do I pick myself up from this and move on? How do I trust again? And how do I find happiness within myself and in anyone else again? Am I just a romantic who believes in soul mates and love and passion and heated sex.. Am I a freak...How can I stop being soo weak?

My husband left me about 3 years ago and came back about 7 months ago. 5 months ago I found out he had been sleeping with a coworker the whole time just before and after he left. I was so blind. My whole life all I ever wanted was a home a husband children and to live happy. I don't care if it was in a shack I just want to feel love. My husband cut ties with this woman shortly after I confronted them both and asked for a divorce. I can't seem to get the trust and respect back I had for him and he has not once said I love you to me. Our sex life consists of me pleasing myself and then pleasing him. I know I should get divorced but I am afraid of being alone which I know sounds petty and weak and stupid. I am now suffering from low self esteem and depression and just wish I could disapear. How do I pick myself up from this and move on? How do I trust again? And how do I find happiness within myself and in anyone else again? Am I just a romantic who believes in soul mates and love and passion and heated sex.. Am I a freak...How can I stop being soo weak?

My husband left me about 3 years ago and came back about 7 months ago. 5 months ago I found out he had been sleeping with a coworker the whole time just before and after he left. I was so blind. My whole life all I ever wanted was a home a husband children and to live happy. I don't care if it was in a shack I just want to feel love. My husband cut ties with this woman shortly after I confronted them both and asked for a divorce. I can't seem to get the trust and respect back I had for him and he has not once said I love you to me. Our sex life consists of me pleasing myself and then pleasing him. I know I should get divorced but I am afraid of being alone which I know sounds petty and weak and stupid. I am now suffering from low self esteem and depression and just wish I could disapear. How do I pick myself up from this and move on? How do I trust again? And how do I find happiness within myself and in anyone else again? Am I just a romantic who believes in soul mates and love and passion and heated sex.. Am I a freak...How can I stop being soo weak?

My husband left me about 3 years ago and came back about 7 months ago. 5 months ago I found out he had been sleeping with a coworker the whole time just before and after he left. I was so blind. My whole life all I ever wanted was a home a husband children and to live happy. I don't care if it was in a shack I just want to feel love. My husband cut ties with this woman shortly after I confronted them both and asked for a divorce. I can't seem to get the trust and respect back I had for him and he has not once said I love you to me. Our sex life consists of me pleasing myself and then pleasing him. I know I should get divorced but I am afraid of being alone which I know sounds petty and weak and stupid. I am now suffering from low self esteem and depression and just wish I could disapear. How do I pick myself up from this and move on? How do I trust again? And how do I find happiness within myself and in anyone else again? Am I just a romantic who believes in soul mates and love and passion and heated sex.. Am I a freak...How can I stop being soo weak?

My husband and I have been together 13 years married 11. He left 2 and a half years ago and was seeing someone else. They broke up and he has been back for 6months now. Everytime there is a problem with us or the kids he says he doesn't know if he wants to be there he keeps going back and forth. I work, go to school, look after the kids and I am a good person. I love my husband, but I am starting to forget why. Should I tell him to just leave or should I let him stay and try to work things out. I am soo confused and hes never straight forward on his feelings or tells me his feelings. Please help..

Education, energy, jobs...more than half of this debate was geared at the wars going on which i Do agree with going on but there are serious issues that I would have liked to seen get addressed and what they thought and how they would fix. You?

I want to know reasons why people are voting for who they are going to vote for. I am amazed at some peoples ignorance in this race.

actually the people voting for obama are mostly uneducated. Ex; this morning on the howard stern show they played a clip of sal the stockbroker interviewing people in harlem and who they would vote for.

The line of questioning went like this. Q: who r u voting for A: obama

Q: do you agree with his position of pro life and of keeping our troops in iraq indefinately until the job is done? A: yes i agree with that. Q: do you think his vp pick of sarah palin is a good one and do you feel shell do well if he wins? A: Yes i feel she will do great as the vp she is great.

" I am not making this up people this really was on the show this morning and what is scary is that the 3 clips they played all had the same answers from men and women...note howard stern is for obama.

Source(s):

Howard stern show on Sirius satellite radio.