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Should I break it off completely? ?
So I used to date this guy back in 2005 went ok for a couple of years and we broke up and I Moved back to the west coast. We reconnected back in 2013 and have had this weird on again off again fling. I actually really care for him (love) very deeply but he is not into commitment at all and is very polyamorous (which I am not). Since then I’ve gotten very sick with a life threatening illness all of my friends believe he does have feelings for me but doesn’t want to say anything and I don’t want to say anything because I’m afraid I’d lose him forever. Key reasons being he’s the first and only person I fell in love with at first sight, there’s great chemistry and even in my worst times he makes everything feel better. However one of my friends said I should tell him so that he can say no and that I can have some closure and pursue people who want to settle down. What to do??
5 Antworten
- PatriciaLv 7vor 1 Jahr
If he wanted to see you, he'd contact you himself. that's how i feel about situations like this
- VincentLv 4vor 1 Jahr
Ask him how he feels about you.
If he asks why you tell him that you developed feelings for him and possibly a future.
If it's positive ask him if he thinks he would be able to commit to you.
If so. You two have to start to figure out how you can get closer.
If don't know. Ask why and go from there.
If no. Don't ask why and leave it for now.
- ?Lv 5vor 1 Jahr
He is too freaky and if you are 32-35, you are young enough to find a better guy and he is just looking for hookups. In the end, he would hurt you more. Get away from him.
- SeldomSeenLv 4vor 1 Jahr
I believe in talking as well as being honest so everyone has all the information. I would want to have that conversation considering how long you have been off and on. I agree with your friends. You both need a chance to make an informed choice.
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- LindaLv 7vor 1 Jahr
Since he is not into commitment at all and polyamorous then you know the answer to this. No. Even if he decided to stay with you, he couldn't be faithful. Walk away.
