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I feel like my husband doesn't understand me?
We both are jobless now... Well, he's been looking for a job for 6 months already while I decided to do my won gig, working from home so I can rest well and get pregnant. However he was let go 6 months ago and things didn't go as planned. He keeps blaming me for not taking MBA school. I've told him MBA isn't for me...I'm a designer, a right brain; hence MBA doesn't interest me at all...not even when I was in college and had to complete economy/accounting classes. He just can't understand me and says that I don't want to learn; and that everyone should understand business.
I'm so depressed...I don't feel loved... Can't I just have my own opinion? Clearly MBA is not something that I will enjoy. I took some business classes to see if I like it or not and I did not.
10 Antworten
- Anonymvor 5 Jahren
You're both jobless but you want to get pregnant? That's insane.
As for the MBA, if you're going to do your "own gig" you at least need to understand the basics of business, so you can run your own. Otherwise, you don't need an MBA to run a small business from home. Hopefully you'll do well enough that if you do need someone with a business mind, you can hire them.
Your husband isn't the only one who doesn't understand you...jobless and wanting to add another mouth to feed and a huge increase in expenses for the next 18 (or more) years. A LOT of people won't understand that one.
- BlueberryLv 5vor 5 Jahren
Let me guess, jobless and neither of you will apply to anything other than what you studied for ?
I get that you want a job in what you went to school for, you didn't do all that for nothing, but if it's been half a year and you both are unemployed, then it's time to start looking for jobs doing other things, just so you can get some money coming in.
The both of you seem lazy and not determined to do what it takes to keep the bills paid, so I don't see how having a child will make anything better, after a year or two you will both be at each others throats.
- PatriciaLv 7vor 5 Jahren
If you and your husband don't agree on something and you have discussed this over and over, it's time to simply drop it and no longer have the conversation. All talking about it does is cause hard feelings. So if he brings it up again, just let him know you understand the way he feels... then leave it at that. You don't have to re-assert your feelings by repeating the same thing you've said over and over.
I'm sure your husband loves you... you two just seem to have your own opinions on some things. There is nothing wrong with differing opinions. However, there is something wrong with lack of acceptance between the two of you.
Just accept each other at face value. There is no sense trying to control what another adult does.
- ?Lv 7vor 5 Jahren
You're both unemployed. Your husband has been unemployed for half a year. You're "working from home," except obviously you're not working. Do you see how the whole "let's get pregnant" thing is problematic? Babies cost money and you're not even willing to get a crap day job to support the two person family you have now (that's what a married couple is; you're a family). Does it suck to work outside of your field? Absolutely. I majored in diplomacy and work in real estate. Not exactly my intended career path, but priorities change. You know what sucks more than not working in your field? Watching you family suffer because you're too selfish to bite the bullet and get something- anything- to provide for them. Life is not an episode of Happy Days. You don't have to get an MBA, but you don't have the luxury of "working from home" and draining your already depleted bank account. Be a team player. Go out and get a job. That's what you signed up for when you got married. Hard times happen.
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- Anonymvor 5 Jahren
You know its almost impossible o make a living as a designer, so if not for an MBA,w hat else can you do? And why doesn't HE get the MBA, if its such a good idea?
- !Clover!Lv 5vor 5 Jahren
Tell him to back off. Maybe take some classes at a community college to help fill out your resume if need be but really no one truly needs to go the MBA route.
- seedy historyLv 7vor 5 Jahren
Somebody has to pay attention to business! Two adults trying to get pregnant when no one has a job is a recipe for lots of sadness and trials likely to go on for a very long time.
- Anonymvor 5 Jahren
A baby is the last thing you two need right now. Get your $hit together first.
- Anonymvor 5 Jahren
If u both are unemployed how will u pay for mba?
- Anonymvor 5 Jahren
HAHA