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Depressed and Gay?
Since I was 13-14 years old, I've always been sad but now I'm 18 and recently its gotten worse. I want to come out to at least 1 family member but I cant handle rejection and they're not okay with homosexuals so that makes me feel alone. I tried hinting to them about it but they don't want to hear it. I also tried to ask "What if my brother was gay?" They reacted negatively and said they don't want to hear about it.
I'm just whining and complaining about all this but I don't know what to do. I'm alone in this world. Nobody knows about my second life.
3 Antworten
- vor 6 Jahren
I'm going thru the same situation but I'm a lot older than u, I'm 27 and nobody in my family knows because they're homophobic. It's a very difficult situation. I really don't know what to tell u, since I'm also going thru the same. If u wanna talk more about it, u can email me at nycruben87@yahoo.com. And don't let it get to u, just be strong. Maybe u can get a job and move out on ur own and enjoy life without having to worry about what other's think about u
- _Ryan_Lv 6vor 6 Jahren
Don't come out to your parents!
What you need are gay friends. If you can accept them, then you can accept yourself.
Your local chapter of Pflag should have a youth group or should know how to connect you with one. You can also check any LGBT community center or hotline or high school GSA or University LGBT center or listings of free public meetings in paper. If this fails, call the Trevor Project hotline or try chatting on Trevorspace.org.
The guys you meet at first may not be your fantasy. But they don't have to be. In fact they shouldn't be, since they're supposed to be your friends.
If you got to know two or three better, then they will introduce you to their friends who may have more of what you want.
Re. Your family, you need a backup plan in case your parents freak-- you need a place you can trust to stay for at least a year. PFLAG is parents and friends of lesbians and gays. They have a local chapter in your city or a larger one nearby. They help gay people deal with their families including having parents of gay kids talk to your parents.
- vor 6 Jahren
I definitely understand how you feel. Maybe seek counseling so you have someone to talk to? Stay strong. Your worth so much and don't let society make you hate yourself for something you can;t control
