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How do you feel about a girl asking out a guy? Is it weird?
I hung out with a friend I hadn't seen in 10 years. We went for drinks and I felt he was cool and all. So the next day at night I asked if he was seeing someone. He never replied. I'm okay if he is or if he isn't interested. I just thought I take a chance because well.. why not? I mean I didn't think he would ask me. He did hold my hand the whole night and tried to kiss me but I think that may have been the beers talking. I didn't kiss him goodnight but I did hug him. He wanted a kiss. I just didn't feel right about it since I like getting to at least a second date before a kiss. My question is, do I seem desperate? I ask because traditionally it is the men who ask the woman and it is men who will pursue the woman if he is really interested. I have never asked a guy out before. I always have been the one to get asked first. But this time, I guess at 24 and he being on the nerdy end I didn't really care and just did it. Not doing it again though.
3 Antworten
- Anonymvor 7 Jahren
I say, Go for it! Just because you're a girl doesn't mean you should be afraid to be the one to take the first step! There's a stereotype that girls who do the asking are desperate--but that's not true! Ignore anyone who says you shouldn't, because you're your own person, and you should do what makes you happy--such as asking this guy out.
- vor 7 Jahren
hey! look, maybe he got busy? how did u ask him? if it was online he pronanly just forgot to reply or got to busy to and there is nothing wrong with asking out a guy, if it was the beers talking he wouldve tried so much more then just kissing you, he wouldve tried to sleep with you if he really were drunk, and you gave him a hug when he wanted a kiss which means now he probably thinks you dont like him. He also held your hand so if you really do like him if i were you i would just try again and talk to him in person about it kind of like indentifying the relationship you have to ask him what this (thats going on) really is. It is not weird for a girl to ask the guy, it happens all the time!! Dont be afraid just try and IT IS NOT WEIRD i promise.
my main language isnt english so sorry for spelling mistakes.
good luck, i hope i helped.
xoxo
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