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Mel
Mel fragte in Family & RelationshipsOther - Family & Relationships · vor 7 Jahren

Is there anyone out there that has never been in love? Does that exist?

A guy told me he has never been in love.

But I see him with his family and especially his mum and I see how caring her is. She is very emotionally needy so he feels like he needs to take care of her. He said that is a burden on him, always needing to take her into consideration in anything he does as she worries so much about him etc.

He lost his dad when he was young and many other relatives.

Now lots of people like him (friends) but he never makes much of an effort to keep those friendships alive. In fact, sometimes he argues with people and just never calls them again. He's rather alone than to approach them again and sort things.

So I am wondering:

Is it even possible to never love someone or develop feelings for them?

Does your brain really "re-hardwire" itself SO much that you stop yourself from feeling much?

When he says he has never been in love....can he truly not feel it or is he stopping himself but secretly cares? Anyone out there that thinks similarly and can relate/explain?

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  • Blue Planet
    Lv 7
    vor 7 Jahren
    Beste Antwort

    I know exactly how he feels. I also had great loss & had 2 take care of my mom for years. It's mentally draining & u really do just lose all feeling of friendships, love, happiness, any personal enjoyment, you feel as if your life has been stolen from you. My mom had a seizure & passed so I have my time back I just don't know if time will allow feelings. I hope this has helped u understand 💔

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  • Joe
    vor 7 Jahren

    It is possible, I think what causes it is disappointment and heartbreak. Growing up there was nothing I wanted more than a loving relationship but over the years I started to grow distant from those feelings and have not felt a connection to anyone in over 8 years.

    I think this is the brain and hearts way of protecting us from being hurt again. I still wish I could feel those excited feelings again but I have really become numb to it. I still hope it will happen but have little faith in it.

  • ?
    vor 7 Jahren

    You know who else was both always alone and overly-concerned with his mother?

    Norman Bates.

  • Dian
    Lv 6
    vor 7 Jahren

    Yes it's possible and it may b as the other answers have told u BUT it may b because he's a psychopath !!!! They NEVER love anyone. Either way, u should move on, while u can !!!!!

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    Quelle(n): He could b a mean Raccoon
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