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What to do when husband doesn't support your dream?

I've been out of job for 2 months since the company did some restructuring. He's been yapping on and off about me being jobless. I do have clients though it doesn't pay well, but at least it still brings food to the table and I've been interviewing a lot; however it takes time to close the deal.

My husband has been wanting me to go to B-school but that's not my dream. I've been working on having my own consulting business but it takes sometime to build the website and find clients. Plus, it takes baby steps to reach the salary I previously earned. I don't want to go to grad school because we're planning to have kids next year and I don't want to stop half-way if i go to school. Plus, family is important for me; hence I want to own a consulting business so I can take care of my family rather than sending the kids to daycare, etc.

I'm so frustrated with him. He's frustrated with me because he wants me to work, work, and work. He does not care who will take care of the kids or clean the house, and only cares if I bring money from work. He has a stable income and we're financially stable even we only have 1 income. But it frustrates me so much because seems like he doesn't care about my dreams, my goals, or what I want to do with my life. I don't mind going to B-school but I don't have desire to work in a company as CEO, COO, or whatever. I prefer working part-time (or even not a fancy job) but raise my kids well. He doesn't even want to listen or understand me; and thought that he married a wrong person.

Why can't he encourage me? At least he can say it nicely rather than yapping about money. Why some men are okay with their wives starting a business or not working at all? Why can't he say, "don't worry and do your best"?

ps. he knows that I've been interviewing a lot. I've been telling him, even if I get a job, that's just for money because that's not my dream job. He doesn't care as long as the company pays me and I receive full benefits.

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  • Anonym
    vor 8 Jahren
    Beste Antwort

    Are to 10? Dream job? Consulting? To be a good consultant you must first be successful in the field you want to be a consultant to and have a proven track record of success.

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