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Should I leave her or work on it?
Well basically, I have been in a relationship for 1 1/2 years now, and over time my gf changed (for the worse...). She first became infreqently psychologically abusive and now is it on a frequent basis plus she gets physically abuse, too. I'm starting to think she has BPD and I'm not sure if I should stay and go through therapy with her or just leave. What got me thinking is, I really love her, but then again she has a hard time admitting to her flaws. Not sure if she would do therapy.
Adding to this is, after abusing me or blowing over something really small she has the nerve to ask me to buy stuff for her or calls me a liar as I promised some time ago to buy it but refuse now based on her behavior. Now am I wrong to do so?? I see the concept of keeping word, but with her behavior I feel she doesn't deserve ****. Threats, intimidations...I feel like she became a vicious ***** ( however is always nice around family making it hard to talk to anyone about my issue). Leaving or therapy?
1 Antwort
- vor 8 Jahren
Therapy? One year and half is just time to get to know someone and now you are getting to know her.
Have a conversation with her and tell your feelings, how her behavior is affecting you, but if continue to be bad, just move on. That is the reason why we date before getting married. Think therapy if you are married with lots of mortgages and kids together and relationship is getting sour. In your situation, just give some time and get out if does not change.