Do things change after an engagement?

My engagement has been one of the happiest periods in my life. Sure, We still get stressed. All couples do. But, we've managed to work through things together. Planning the wedding hasn't been a walk in the park, but we are excited and we're happy (and relieved) that the big day is finally almost here. It's certainly been an additional challenge to us as a couple, but it's definitely brought us closer together.

I think that if you feel your happiness is on the decline, if you're constantly fault-finding, if you don't feel like he is responsible, and if you feel like your relationship is "empty" then you've either got a terrible case of cold feet or you really need to reconsider this engagement. If you're stressed now, it's going to be hard for you to handle planning a wedding. You need to take a step back and figure out if this is just nerves talking or if this is real. Can you truly envision yourself married to this man for the rest of your life? Do you really think that you will be able to make a home with him and have a healthy relationship? Does he love, respect, and support you? Do you love, respect, and support him? These are, of course, questions that you should have answered before you accepted his proposal, but it's definitely not too late to take inventory of your feelings now. Just do some soul searching.

If you are not absolutely sure you are marrying the best m,an on earth fro you then you need to carefully reconsider and perhaps seek a professional counselor to help solidify your thoughts. While increased intimacy Cn lead to increased conflicts I do not sense this is your issue - rather you feel abandoned and no longer being loved and wooed now that the engagement is formal

Guys aren't good at planning weddings but if you two got engaged before "the pink glasses came off" as they say (you weren't seeing him as he really was yet) then end the engagement or at least talk to him about what you want from him and ask if he can provide it.

How do u get something u want without asking?..

How does he know how u feel

Unless u tell him?..

How do u know it won't change in the future?..

Your question opens more questions for me.. Communication is the key NOT ARGUMENTS! They get u know where but upset and leaving with a headache and broken heart.. Talk to him.. Might be all in your head or he isn't really tho one and u need to move on.. TALK TO HIM.. :)

*shrug*

I've been engaged for a year, and if anything, we're closer than we've ever been.

Perhaps you need to accept that your relationship is drifting apart, you either both work on it, or you end it.

If my fiance and my feelings changed after getting engaged, it was for the better, not worse.

You should seek couples councelling.

Yes more arguments.