My Best friend/ boyfriend has moved on?

Firstly you are an adult and therefore you can make your own decisions without needing your parents permission. Now at this point in time you can't be friends with this guy because you still got feelings for him and want more from him then just friendship. You will eventually begin to resent him and that resentment will eat away at the friendship to the point whereby you are just left bitter and more hurt.

For the time being you will need to break off all contact with him and start carving out a life of your own. You're at uni so start joining some of those social/special interest clubs whereby you have the chance to make lots of new friends (both male and female) with similar interest to you. Also look at doing volunteering work outside uni which will not only look great on your CV but again gives you a chance to meet new people. For the time being just concentrate on making new friends and not look for a relationship until you are over your ex.

If you still feeling really depress seek professional help either through a counselor at uni or your GP.

Awwh, that must be so hard to go through. But you need to try to stop thinking about how things were or how they could be, he was stupid and towards the end treated you like rubbish. Your mum is probably just really worried about you, if you want to stay and Uni maybe just pay a few home visits to reassure her you can cope? Your friend really messed up and maybe if you explain your feelings to your mum she can help you get through it. You could talk to him and still be friends, but the problem with that is that you'll be getting all upset and depressed because of how he gets to have the perfect life when it was infact him that messed things up. Try and find someone new to take you mind off him, there's bound to be somewhere better for you:)

It is going to be hard but the best thing you can do is just try forget him. You are not going to hurt forever unless you keep thinking about him, you probably weren't dependant on him before he came along so don't think of him as someone who's changed you(even if he has, there is no going back). Your parents really want the best for you and they've lived longer and probably know whether or not you being heartbroken is going to last forever.

Just focus on your studies, channel all your emotions into that and forget about him, if he decides to contact you again then you know your friendship/relationship was real.

Pick yourself back up, do things for YOU. Go out with your closest friends, if you don't have any, make some. Do some things you like... for example, I love baking and swimming. After my boyfriend and I broke up I did it till I felt great. Listen to music. My favorite down song is Pop Life by Prince.

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