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Guys only: How do I fix this attitude problem of mine? Any suggestions?
I am 28 (going on 29) and have never had sex before. I’ve been ignored most of my life because of a birth defect involving the neck (nothing too serious, just disfigurements). But women don’t know what they’re missing out on! I speak three languages, I like to travel, I’m skilled in math, I’m a good writer, I’m considerate to others’ needs, I volunteer my time, etc. I think I sound like a guy that many women would want to go out with! Back in high school and college, I had a few girls approach me, mostly ugly girls. (Yeah, I know – attractive women already have lots of guys approaching them, so why would they need to approach me?) I have had girls call me “hon” or “sweetie” but that’s usually because they address everybody that way – doesn’t necessarily mean they're attracted to me. I think I’m reasonably attractive, but I would probably be the “male model” type if not for my birth defect. Because if I were that attractive, how come I’ve never had a girlfriend?
Over the past year, I have come to the conclusion that “I NEED to have the chance to stick my you-know-what into a woman’s you-know-what. Otherwise, I will NEVER be happy.” Don’t give me that “poor people in Africa/Latin America” lecture. Even poor (and homeless!) people can get sex, so it’s not about that. The only consolation is that some people have worse birth defects than me – they could be so mentally disabled (I need to be politically correct here!) through a birth defect or accident/injury that they don’t even know or understand what “sexual intercourse” is. That being said, I’m definitely in the minority. Most guys my age have had sex by now. I could have lots of money, a great job, nice car, my own house, fancy clothes, etc., but I STILL wouldn’t be happy being a virgin. I know this is TMI, but I’m sick and tired of ejaculating all over my PJs at night, just because I’m not “getting any.” Is there any way to fix this attitudinal problem?
4 Antworten
- vor 8 Jahren
Anyone on earth can score even looking like King Kong. There are more women on this earth than there are men. You don't sound like you're that bad looking but your confidence is low. Modern day relationships are like a staring competition and confidence is everything so put your chin up first.
If you want to get laid then here's some fine advice.
1) Females prefer a more comfortable and stable situation before having a sexual relationship. Ask a girl out and be friends with her, get to know her and ask her out. Maybe be her man.
2) Don't EVER talk about virginity, sex or sound like you're a sex freak before commitment. Make sure you come across as a sweet genuine person that she would introduce to her parents.
3) Go shopping and look good. Make a great FIRST IMPRESSION but make sure you don't overdo the "being a gentleman" ****. That stuff is crap and girls are in more ways appreciating personal independence.
4) Just pretend that your condition doesn't exist. You have alot of goods so make sure that you don't spill everything all at once. Just pretend that she's gonna be there for a while and take chances to invest on something long term. Life is about taking chances.
5) Confidence - there is nothing to be afraid of and carry yourself with pride as a man
6) Have a story for your past relationship. Be a guy that was genuinely in a relationship with someone and got hurt or something to get you the sympathy factor. She would see herself in your shoe and despise your ex's behavior. Don't tell her that you're a virgin...NO.
7) Sex is overrated so just chill out and make the girl more comfortable for being your friend. The more comfortable she is with you, the better your chances of scoring.
8) Be a man and express yourself at all times. Just don't overdo it and tell annoying lifetime stories. Tell her how you feel about her when you do feel something but make sure you reserve your feelings more than she does. After-all you are the man.
I have no expertise there but escort girls might also be an option for you if you don't wan't to have feeling for your lover. It'll cost you a couple of hundred but at-least you'll get the first one out of the way and shake off the rust. Just make sure you wrap it up. You'll realize that it really isn't what it's hyped up to be.
Good luck Brah
Quelle(n): A former virgin that gets laid - Anonymvor 8 Jahren
Get some confidence. Don't let a 'birth defect' define you. You sound like a stud, girls should be lining up to gargle your privates, but they're not going to know how good you are if you don't show confidence and be assertive.
- vor 8 Jahren
Well personally don't make it seem like your dating them just for sex or it won't last very long, if at all. Try to be normal if your dating someone, and then when your both ready for sex, then so be it.
Quelle(n): I'm a guy
