Guys why is he acting like this?

Question

I have had a crush on this guy for 13 yrs we lost contact and we started talking when I was 20.
He started saying I was sexy and comments on my FB pictures. That I was F**king Hot. I have asked him if I had a change with him he said in the some point in the future. I asked again and he said he was not a faithful man and did not want to cheat on me.
Last week I saw him since we live in different countries I wanted a straight answer and he said he saw me as a "sister" which pist me off of course because why lie to me for 5 yrs about his feeling towards 
me.
Whats the main reason of lying or more so what does this mean.
I have been told to protect me but I say its bs because I had a ex bf that did this to me and he knows how heartbroken I was over this. Why cause me pain if he wanted to "protect me". He even acted jelous if I mentioned his name.

Chellie · Accepted Answer

He may be with someone but doesn't want to break your heart because he really does not care about you in that way. Or he is just a free spirit and doesn't want to be tied down to any one person.

Ignatius · Answer

(straight male speakin')

holy crap, seriously.
he's just trying to get action, ignore him, this can't go well.

if u can't get a straight answer, ofc. there will always be awesome men who would die to meet you, so don't waste your precious time on someone who's a lyin scumbag.

Anonym · Answer

maybe he love you but f he is always do that jelous is not good maybe he is not true to love you..and you ask him f he is serous to you,,he is lie to you u will be ask of him why he is lie to u?

Guys why is he acting like this?

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