I don't want to have sex with my girlfriend?

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Well, the thing is: I don't want to have sex with my girlfriend. What can I do about? The reason is, she cheated on me. And I'm just so hurt, I can't really get intimate with her. It's strange, shes really sexy, but it puts me off. I just have the feelin I can't. Feels wrong.

Anonym · Accepted Answer

The way you feel is completely valid and understandable.

dell · Answer

If it puts you off. Then tell her so.  The longer you leave it, she will go get it somewhere else.

? · Answer

If you feel uncomfortable with her then you two should talk ... If you guys dont agree in anything then its time to call it over? , please answer mine ?   

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Tony Danza · Answer

I agree with you been there and couldn't work it out felt sick and like it was very wrong being near him so I left. You need to leave its tearing you apart and that's just the price she has to pay. Just thank god your not married and next time the second you've been cheated on get up and leave don't accept anything less than what you give.

Koi · Answer

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She cheated on you and you're still with her...? That's extremely pathetic that you're still with her just because she's pretty as if that makes it "okay" for what she did. You need some more self-respect.

XoXo · Answer

If your hurt cuz of wuh she did and dnt wana have sex just let her go your just hurting yourself i noe you gana be hurt by not being with her buh your gana be more hurt every time she wants to have sex and you dbt you nie your reason why and your just gana be hurt everytime it happens so just break up with her you gana be hurt for serval weeks buh better den being hurt every time she wants to have sex and you just remember wuh she did

Lucy · Answer

Trust your instinct. If it feels wrong then why should you do it?

Bailey Styles · Answer

Grow some BALLS man!

Talk to her say (lets call her jenna) when youre getting in the mood say Jenna, I know you want to do this and everything, but since everything happened I just dont feel like it! Maybe we can talk about it and try to fix it?

AND IF SHE SAYS NO or it doesnt work the relationship is over k?

I mean, you can have relationships with no sex,, but you cant have relationships without respect! And if she has changedin your eyes then you should end it without leading anything anywhere.

JUST MY OPINION!

Im a 19 f jjust letting you know

Anonym · Answer

If it feels wrong to you, then you should either wait until you're not hurt anymore and forgive her, or you should break up.

I don't want to have sex with my girlfriend?

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