Why do men these days look so gay?

I have no comment on whether this a good thing or a bad thing....I've seen several generations and I can tell you that the sexes have been moving towards each other for some time now...males have been more and more feminine and women have been more and more masculine...don't know why but it is absolutely true..my quess is that Nature thinks this a good thing to prevent agressive testosterone fueled wars from destroying our species....whether It will work is questionable..

There are many reasons for this. Girls and women feel more comfortable around a male that looks more feminine. There is usually no doubt what a masculine looking man wants. It seems that the greatest thing in the world for a woman is to have a man that will sit for hours talking about feelings and watching chick flicks without having to fend off sexual advances or be viewed as a sex object. This is why many women have gay friends. Another reason is that for the past 50yrs the modern media, the movie industry and others have been portraying an androgenous male as the most desirable male, and females especially young females have bought into this.

They don't just look gay.They are homosexual.What looks like a duck and quakes like a duck is a duck.This is the way nature is telling women to stay away from them.There are so many gays being born these days because the male DNA is undergoing mutations.Scientists predict that soon real men will be extinct.I read an article about this in a science magazine.

It's because eventually everyone will be allowed to act like a guy or a girl, it's just more accepted now. Your probably gay in one way or another. Generally though it's because it's fashion, and i know it's pretty gay, but these guys probably would wear anything if it's fashion, even if they are straight. Before fashion was more straight because it's wasn't as accepted to be gay, now that gay is in, the fashion is gay and you can see the domino affect.

Years ago, it was thought unacceptable for women to wear pants. But times change.

BTW, I think it's a bit narrow-minded of you to base masculinity solely on what men wear. There are burly construction workers that still go to the salon once and a while xD

Trendy fashion is super gay nowadays. Men shouldn't dress with modern trend.

Did it ever happen to you that gay adult men are extra tender popping out because homosexuality is extra commonplace than it grow to be 50 years in the past, not that there is inevitably extra gay adult men? That appears like a extra life like clarification than the actual indisputable reality that women individuals are utilising instantly adult men gay. LOL.

Men have been wearing earrings for 1000's of years, in fact many more had them when I was growing up in the 70's/80's. Actually in the 80's many men experimented with hair styles and even make up--and they weren't gay. It was just the trend of the moment. Lots more had long hair too and most females really liked this...and these guys certainly weren't gay (in fact the gays usually had really super short hair and often a moustache--things you might call 'masculine!). Think of all the rockers with really long hair, earrings and jewellery...and loads of women.

I haven't really seen the fashion you are describing that often, I mostly see a lot of non-descript tubby guys with short no-style kind of hair, wearing non descript shirts (often football shirts) that make their shoulders look rounded and slouched.

Because every other commercial is about men's hair care products. Men don't "do" their hair. Girls do. Men don't put together an "outfit". Girls do. We get out the shower, dry off, put on clean clothes and sneakers. Period

I know right, with their big fake glasses which they don't even need, and weird hair cuts, and their clothes! Ugh!

I hate it! I would never fall for someone like that, a real man is what a girl needs not someone who needs to borrow my skinny jeans every now and then.

I really don't know, I have been asking myself that question since forever!

My sister is actually attracted to guys like that, it just shocks me.

Anyway, hopefully there will be men out there who still act as their gender.