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My Girlfriend never has time for me, busy?

I have read questions like this, but found no answer. Well, I am in university, she's working. I see her maybe once in two weeks, for example in the last 2 weeks I have seen her for 30 minutes on her break. I have loved her ever since, and Im not gonna break up with her, I want to make it work, no matter what price I pay for that. So what can I do? U know, it really hurts me a lot. I am very ambitious, I see career as very important, but still I put her in first place. It hurts to see she doesn't. I understand people are busy. I am doing a double degree, being best in class, doing distance education at a second uni and running my own business. Yet I would always find time for her. I just don't see much effort of her to make time for me. Please give me advise, please. What can I do to make her behavior change? Or do I have to learn to handle it? Am I being childish for feeling lonely?

Update:

Well thanks for the answers. As much as I am being suspicious, I still trust her. To the guy who said shes cheating: Shes a virgin, and a pretty smart girl. So it wouldnt be wise of her to spread her legs for someone else. Cause when I nail her I guess I would find out...It seems she just doesnt realize. Cause her last boyfriend left her for that reason. I dont want to repeat that for her. So yea, I want to make it work even if it means I suffer. When we are together, everything is fine, she is very caring and takes her time, so honestly I dont doubt she loves me like she says.

Also, would you introduce your boyfriend to your family, to set of a month later and cheat? I dont think so. She keeps saying she wants a serious relationship, so do I. But for me it means seeing her more often. So any more thoughts on what I can do?

5 Antworten

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  • vor 9 Jahren
    Beste Antwort

    No, you don't have a big problem. Plus, you can call her, or go to her house that you want to talk to her. It's in the good choice and in the good time.

    Please..... Help me...... answer to my question:

    http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An...

  • vor 9 Jahren

    Leave her for one week. Do not contact her. Don't send her messages or call her. If she loves you she will contact you if not ......

    Well, Daniel as for as I am concerned she doesn't love you. You love her and that is the reason you keep her at the 1st place not only you but every lover, if she loved you she should also keep you at the first place and find time for you.

    There is another possibility, she might have pressures from her family.

    Best of Luck!

  • Anonym
    vor 9 Jahren

    She is cheating on you she has to be. When your in love you always find the time to spend time with them. She don't give a **** about you anymore. She is spreading her legs for another man and is nothing but a whore and that's a damn fact.

    ~Don't like my answer that's just to damn bad.~

    ~Damn Guy~

    Quelle(n): Damn Guy
  • Angela
    Lv 7
    vor 9 Jahren

    I agree with Sarik.

    Unfortunately, you cannot change someone else's behavior- you have to change yours.

    If you don't want to break up with her just be prepared that this relationship may simply fizzle out by itself...

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  • Anonym
    vor 9 Jahren

    Try surprising her with a date or a treat when you get the chance!

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