My New Friend/Neighbour personality is so weird I want to run?

I have a friend/neighbour whom I have be friend-ed. I have known her for six months now. But, I am starting to feel uncomfortable around her. The reason is, is every time we hang out. She always has to hug me. She will say this. "Come here, give me a hug." But, she says it, to the point where I feel like she feels sorry for me or something. Or, as if I were a kid or something. Sometimes, I regret telling her my personal business. Because, she will make it seem like I am stupid for working it out with my husband. Not only that, when I had a miscarriage last month. She went on and on. Saying your so tough, how do you do it. Or, she will call me asking if I am feeling okay everyday sometimes. As if I am some sickly person or something. Just because I have epilepsy, doesn't mean I need to be asked that day after day. That is what I feel like telling her.

Also, she has depression. She is on depression medicine. At times, she can act so weird to me. If I knock on her door, to see if she wants to go to the gym, or go walking with the dogs. She will open her door, and not even invite me in. She claims her house is messy so she never lets me in sometimes. She will have her head sticking out with the door barely open. She complains her life is so miserable also. Sometimes, it is annoying. Because, she has a great business, she also does television commercials. She was also a beauty pageant winner years ago. Yet, her life is miserable. Which is annoying to hear people complain who have it great career wise. She also has admitted she has no female friends. Because, she is intimidated by women. Which makes me wonder does she only like me, because I am less attractive compared to her.

What do you all think?