Should I move with my dad?

Oh dear! I think you're in love and torn. Is your dad willing for this arrangement? If you know he's getting a divorce you must talk to him often. BUT, you could be jumping from frying pan into the fire, if you don't really "know" your dad.

Another thought, at 16 you're not going to have time to work enuf hrs for multiply flights.

Leaving your bf behind, are you strong enough to continue on that right path he's shown you?

Is there ANYONE there you could live with ANYONE? Then you could have both...

If your family has left marks on you, you can report it. But, you could be moved across town....still away from your bf.

This is a HUGE decision for a 16yr old, sad that you even have to consider where to live.

Not sure I helped at all.... but, GOOD LUCK to you.

Of course you should. You said both your parents are abusive, call your dad right now and tell him you want to move with him. I know you're going to miss your friend, but you can call him and have him visit you. I honestly wouldn't suggest therapy because chances are that its not gonna work and both your stepfather and mother will get mad at you. Just calll your dad and tell him you want to move in with him asap and when he asks why, tell him what's been going on. You said you can trust him right. By not saying anything to someone you trust, your dad, the abuse is not gonna end. I know your gonna miss your friend because he seems really close to you, but call your dad and your friend.Then start packing when your parents aren't home and have your dad pick you up. I'm sure he'll come to your rescue.

Move with your dad because your stepfather abusing u is wrong! He has no right to do that to you wat so ever all he is is someone who married your mom and he feels that gives him the right to treat you like that which he doesnt! If he ever puts his hands on you call the police! And as for your friend you can keep in touch by emialing, video chat, sending letters, texting, facebook, twitter, calling, ect. And try to trust people again not everyone will treat you as horribly as your mother and stepfarther. And dont do drugs and achohol all your doing is self destruction of youself because you feel like you dont deserve more? Call these number for advice 24/7

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Isn't the fighting the reason you've been suicidal? You want to get as far away from that as you can. You can still see your friend. Phone calls, video chat, Facebook, etc. Technology has made it nearly impossible to lose touch. Friends are a great thing, but you need to do what is best for you at the moment.

What a difficult things? do you really know your dad? because in this world we never know..I think you should live with your dad. Yeah , i think you love him! but sometimes we have to make sacrifices in live that help us to grow! You can still see him.. or maybe he loves you and move near to you ...we never know.. I know mom is mom no matter how they are...Try to talk to your mom..REMEMBer Study! take any course! or go at least to community college! haha I talk like an old person and im just 17 xD

If your friend has saved you, he would respect your idea to move. If you feel you need to leave leave. It's your life and you should live it happy and free of any harm. If you feel safer with your dad I suggest you go.