What did she mean by this?

Okay saw an old friend on the internet and we talked a couple of times. Now back in college I had a one night stand with her and that was it. We stayed in contact and good friend until graduatuion when we started making our own lives for ourselves. I had asked her did she want to go bowling and hand out and where she lived to pick her up if she wanted to go. She tells me no I'm not telling you were I live to pick her up and she doesn't know what I look like now because she hasn't seen me in a while as another reason why she can't hang out with me.What in the hell does my looks have to do with her hanging out with me, she had no problems hanging out with me when we where in school together.