Is she there when I need her the most?

Question

My ex broke up with me well over two months ago. We were together for over a year and a half. I've been no contact with her for a month now. She broke up with me because she said she no longer felt the same about me. That stupid "I love you but I'm not in love with you anymore" jazz. Well I've spent the last month trying to get over her since that's what she wants. I've been trying to better my life but just recently my life has really taken a turn for the worst. Ever since she dumped me it's really been spiraling downward and just when I thought I hit the bottom a brand new hole opened up and now I'm free falling again.

Right now I really need somebody to help me get through this. I need her more right now then ever before and yet she's not there. Should I break the no contact prematurely? Even if she doesn't love me anymore. I need support and she gave it to me before. Maybe she can do it again?

doodlebugtoous · Accepted Answer

Im not sure that leaning on her is the best thing to do.  All this can do is rekindle old feelings and heartbreak in the process.  My suggestion is to leave her alone and find another source to help you get through your tough times.  Try use your faith during thses trying times.. trust me it has really worked for me in more ways than one.

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how old are you? im 19..im a girl..im going through the same...but me and my boyfriend were together 2 and a half years :( Im so lost with out him...some days i feel happy...others im just so lonely !! i dont think i will ever stop loving him..just hope it gets easier..how long as it been since u broke up? its been 9 week for me! just try be with your family and friends as much as possible!! write back in the info box...If ya need someone to chat tooooo send me your name and ill add you to facebook..i would like to speak to someone who is going through the same as meeee !

Is she there when I need her the most?

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