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Tony
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Tony fragte in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · vor 1 Jahrzehnt

How long do I wait until I contact her?

Long story short, my girlfriend broke up with me a month ago maybe a little more. She told me she didn't feel the same anymore and just wanted to be friends. Obviously that isn't good enough for me since I still love her. Two weeks ago I decided to essentially just vanish. By vanishing I was hoping that she would eventually start to miss me and try to contact me or want me back or something. I decided to start by doing two weeks and seeing if I could go longer. The first week went by easily, but this past week has been hell. I've been fighting the temptation to try and contact her. I haven't broken yet but it's been incredibly taxing on me.

So since it's been two weeks I need to make my choice now. Do I try and go another two weeks? That would be like early November. Do I do two weeks more after that>? That would actually be just after my birthday and she would contact me by then right? Or do I go even longer and try to go well into December?

3 Antworten

Relevanz
  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt
    Beste Antwort

    I'm sorry to hear that you're having a hard time with this breakup. But, fact of the matter is, she broke up with you because the relationship just wasn't working for her anymore. She's not going to come back. You stopped contacting her the past two weeks and look, she hasn't tried contacting you, which means she probably won't. It's possible she might eventually contact you just to see how you are doing, but I doubt it's going to be because she wants to get back with you. I think that you should continue not contacting her, but not in hopes of getting her back. You should take this time to try and get past it so you can move on and find the girl you're supposed to be with. Good luck.

  • Anonym
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    Playing games never gets you anywhere. You have two choices. 1) show up at her window with a guitar and a Dashboard Confessional song and try to win her back 2) forget about it and go ask out another cute girl. I would go with number 2. You will be fine.

    Quelle(n): Experience.
  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    Tony she doesn't love you the way you love her...I know its hard to accept but you must just move on...Its not real for her and for you its real, its everything, event the air she breathes is special and has meaning...Just move on...Sometimes people just don't work out...for whatever the reasons are it just doesn't happen...Move on, your going to get hurt.....

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