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Been on two dates and still not sure about her. Should I see her again?

Hi. I met this girl a couple of months back and I've been on two dates with her.

To be honest after the one last night I'm still not sure about her. There are times in conversation when I think she has potential, and then something else happens which changes my mind.

I just think she can be a bit loud sometimes and I don't always feel that I connect with her. I don't feel as though I'm able to start conversations with her very freely like I have done with other girls in the past.

I have never had a girlfriend before and I find that opportunities don't come along for me very often. I feel bad because I can tell that she is into me in a big way. Should I see her one more time before I make a decision?

6 Antworten

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  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt
    Beste Antwort

    I think that you should at least try for one more date, but not out of pity, just to ensure that feelings for her may or may not be there. However, I also think it's important to be honest with her. The ounce of doubt that you're having isn't really fair to keep from her, and if you go on another date and end up calling things off, then the decision might seem sudden and might hurt her even more. Besides, if you continue keeping this feeling from her, then it'll be even harder to be yourself and connect with her, because you know something she doesn't, and you therefore might not feel as involved in getting to know her. I would say something like, "I'm not exactly sure where this is headed, but I don't want to give up on it yet. I just wanted to let you know that I'm not too sure about things right now." That leaves things out in the open, and will let her know that you're neither too serious nor completely turned off.

    Ultimately, it's your decision so I would do what feels right to you. But from what you've said, I wouldn't let the opportunity pass unless you're pretty sure it's the right thing to do. Best of luck with whatever happens.

  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    Yes, you have nothing to lose by continuing to date her. See where it goes, and if something better comes along the way, pursue it. Give it a good shot though, and you may be amazed how it turns out. If your not sure after a few months though, then cut your loss's and just be friends.

  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    Yes, go meet one more time, but make sure it's in a different setting or situation.

    People are often nervous on first dates, give her one more chance.

    Good luck.

  • Anonym
    vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    If it's just a date then I see no harm in trying one last time. Sometimes you need to allow time for people to grow on you.

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  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    dont get into a relationship just because you want the experience. you may end up in a bad relationship. anyways you dont like her so much. please dont take chance

  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    Yes please do keep meeting

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