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is he flirting with me or just being friendly?
Hello!
There's a guy at work who is very friendly with me (as I am not being very lucky at the moment: my dad and my gran have died shortly, my husband has left me for a month now).
He has always been friendly with me of course it is nothing new.
But he has started to compliment me on my look saying I look pretty or sexy. He keeps trying to make me laugh and smile. He never loses an occasion to hug me.
He has just invited me to his birthday (2 months in advance) because he wanted to be sure I will be there.
He has even asked me how things are with my husband and if I am ready to get divorced and have a new relationship or if I want to wait for him a little longer.
It is all very nice of course. But I am not sure if he is flirting with me or if he is just being supportive. I wouldn't like to hurt his feelings nor to let him hope for more. I appreciate him being friendly and kind to me. But I don't know if this is just pure friendship from him (and then it's good: it means he really is a great friend and I'm sure great friends do exist) or if he's trying to get closer (and in that case it is definitely not what I want). But how should I know?
What do you guys think?
4 Antworten
- vor 1 JahrzehntBeste Antwort
Personally I think that he might like you, i mean he might compliment you to be nice, but asking about the relationship and when your ready for a new one seems to suggest to me maybe he does like you :)
- DeadLineLv 6vor 1 Jahrzehnt
So far, his moves point more to the friendly/supportive zone. But he MAY be too shy/not ready to admit that he has feelings for you. So right now, it looks like he's mostly being friendly, but he may have feelings for you deep down. You could either wait a bit longer to find out or you could talk to him about the whole situation if you feel like it.
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
Reads like flirting to me. Concern would stop at looking nice and asking about the husband stuff. but going on to looking sexy is pushing it in my opinion.
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
well, first off i am terribly sorry about your case your in right now but he is indeed flirting. let him no you still have feelings for your husband, or you need some alone time or you arent looking for a relashonship! hope i helped!
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