is he flirting with me or just being friendly?

Question

Hi. 
There's a guy at work who is very friendly with me (as I am not being very lucky at the moment: my dad and my gran have died shortly, my husband has left me for a month now). 

He has always been friendly with me of course it is nothing new. 
But he has started to compliment me on my look saying I look pretty or sexy. He keeps trying to make me laugh and smile. He never loses an occasion to hug me. 
He has just invited me to his birthday (2 months in advance) because he wanted to be sure I will be there. 
He has even asked me how things are with my husband and if I am ready to get divorced and have a new relationship or if I want to wait for him a little longer.

It is all very nice of course. But I am not sure if he is flirting with me or if he is just being supportive. I wouldn't like to hurt his feelings nor to let him hope for something.

Macrocompassion · Accepted Answer

He could be both flirting and friendly at the same time. 

He could also be trying to take advantage of what is probably a delicate state of your feelings at the moment. What is his marital status?

? · Answer

I think that he is looking for a 
relationship with you, He's telling you
that you look pretty or sexy, and is inviting you
2 MONTHS early to his birthday, I certainatly think
he has a thing for you, give him a shot, if you feel the same way.
-sorry to hear about your dad, gran and husband :(

? · Answer

He is just trying to get laid, he knows you are in a vulnerable stage and he is trying to take advantage of that.

is he flirting with me or just being friendly?

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