I'm going to get a spanking. Should I expect to be spanked hard enough to make me cry afterward?

You are definitely not too old - as long as it works you never are. Crying from a spanking can be a great release of guilty feelings, but it isn't necessary for the punishment to be effective. I've both given and received some very harsh spankings that resulted in redness for up to a week, but didn't bring tears, and other much milder spankings that resulted in a good hard cry. It is the total situation and methods, rather than the severity of the spanking, that matters. When my wife spanks me for punishment she almost always has me crying with just the lecture before, and I just continue to cry through the spanking.

I would expect so. Every spanking should be hard enough to make you cry..( if your an adult, and practicing this). No, your not too old. I'm 22..and let's just say I've had my share of spankings from men.

Assuming that you are an adult you should not opt for little love taps on your behind. If a spanking is supposed to work it has got to hurt and be memorable. So tell your spanker to not hold back, but make yure you have a safe word so that you can make him or her stop when it gets too much. Only you can know how much you need.

Wishing you good luck!

What you need is DISCIPLINE ... not punishment such as "spanking".

You need much self-discipline in your life.

Become a DISCIPLE of a good Way.

IF your parents or your sibling won't spank you, then probably you should NOT be spanked ... whether hard enough that you cry or not that hard. It sounds as though you are "too old" to be getting spanked even if not mature enough to behave without pain.

well it depends on what u've done that u think u need to be spanked for, if u think its bad enough that it should make u cry, then ask for that. but if u think its just like a little spanking situation then ask for that. its pretty much up to u with what u've done and how u think u should be punished.

just be a big girl and get bend over and spanked, and when it happens try and not to think about it to much

I am a Mother of six children and I spank them all. So does my husband. My family is very conservetive. Meaning girls where dresses and long skirts and Men wear pants. Men are in full charge of women. If I was to step out of line my Husband would spank me barebottom with his belt as he spanks our 6 children. There is nothing wrong with it. When you do somthing wrong or stupid you should be punished. You should get a Man to spank you and make sure its with a belt. Never get a woman to spank another women. For Men are better than women and should have full control over them.

omg i am 14 i still get the paddle it so sucks and it hurts i cry all the time we need to keep in touch omg i hate it

You didn't mention your age here but your question sounds very suspicious. No kid I ever knew had asked his/her disciplinarian for a harder spanking. What gives? This person isn't molesting you, is he?