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What do i do about this 'friend' of mine?
I really don't like this one girl... we used to be good friends but i don't like her anymore... i just want to tell her that i don't like her to her face and that i don't want to be friends but my parents don't want me to do that cause it would hurt her...they say i should slowly stop being friends with her... what should i do?
9 Antworten
- vor 1 JahrzehntBeste Antwort
Ok coming from a girls stand point. Your parents are right we can be gentle or we can be rude as anyone. Depends on this girls attitude. So we will go with gentle first is she is gentle than it would be best for you to slowly ignore her. If she walks up to you then tell her you have ot go do something else. Not that you aren't in the mood no offense to anyone. But if you think she can handle it and she is a tom-boy-ish type of girl then just tell her that you have new friends and you don't really like her that much. Just my opinion.
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
You can tell her to her face, just be tactful about it--like if she comes up and tries to start a conversation in a public place, don't do it then! That would embarrass her and probably make her angry enough to try and get revenge or something like that. Don't wait for her to talk to you first to tell her, either. It's better if you asked her if you guys could talk privately sometime, and explain your feelings to her. Say something like "Look, I know we used to be good friends but I'm just not feeling it anymore. I really don't know the reason, but I think it's just better if we went our separate ways. It's not you and it's not me, it's just that I don't think we get along all that well." And of course, tell her you're sorry because she will probably feel hurt. She should get the point though. Just be nice about it! Hope this helps =)
- yesLv 5vor 1 Jahrzehnt
Make some excuses when she comes to try talk to you or asks you out. Slowly she will get the idea that you don't want to be friends with her. Also try to act weird in front of her, hopefully she will lose interest in your friendship and leave on her own. Good luck!
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
Dont hurt her or she can get other people to turn on you too....I think you should do what your parents say but do it a little differently......when she says something to you kinda turn her away by saying a little answer like,"sure" or "uhuh" and if you keep it up she will most likely give up on talking to you......but if that doesnt work find somethin that you can get mad at her for and tell her you dont wanna talk because of it......thats all i got:)
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- Supersonic JocyLv 6vor 1 Jahrzehnt
Just stop talking to her slowly... and if she goes with you... just start
getting away from her. Step by step. She will get the message soon
if you start getting away from her little by little, more and more (hope you
got what i meant with that)
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
Slowly start hanging out with other people and hanging out with her less. She will pick up on it after a while and soon she will be finding other people to hang with also.
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
this may sound bad but, just slowly stop talking to her like you said. if she talks to you and asks you why your ignoring her just say,'i'm not in the mood. . .' and walk off or say something that sounds like she isnt the reason.
- vor 1 Jahrzehnt
oh.. u are that "kind" of friend...
nvm just tell her to her face, she dont miss a thing