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Why do people who got abused think they're better people?
Earlier this evening I was talking to a girl who actually had a go at me about the fact that "I didn't know what it was like to be her" and that "she'd gone through so much sh*t" in her life. Well - so what? Just because I never got raped doesn't mean I'm any LESS of a human being does it?
Just because I never had the bad luck to get fiddled with doesn't mean that I'm not worthy of life!
We all go through a lot of crap in our lives, some of it's not so bad as the others but most of us try to get on with our lives and get over it. Some people have given birth, some people have gotten shot, some people have gotten trapped in burning buildings, some people have lost limbs - they don't hold these things against anyone else - they're private things that we each have to deal with.
Why do people who "got raped" seem to think that they should wear it as some kind of badge of honour and act like they're better than everyone else just because they've had a "worse experience". They seem to actively relish the fact that they have something sh*tty in their past that they can blame all their idiosyncracies on.
It's not MY fault that you got raped - so where do you get off giving me sh*t about the fact that I haven't been?
Has anyone else encountered this kind of thing?
Mr Warrior - you couldn't have missed the point any more if you were standing right beside it and aimed in exactly the opposite direction.
"YOU dont know what its like to be her. YOU dontknow the shite she went through in her life."
Quite right - I don't
but why does that mean she's better than me?
THAT'S the point.
example:
I touched her neck in a playful flirty way and she was like "don't ever tough my neck i hate people touching my neck! i got strangled when i was 7 - you don't know what i've had to deal with in my life"
well, if you're still irrationally freaking out about something that happened over 20 years ago then i don't think you can really be claiming to have "dealt" with it. do you?
Still not getting it Warrior.
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- USA RocksLv 4vor 1 JahrzehntBeste Antwort
I agree with you man It is a terrible thing that that person went through but at the same time bad things happen to all people don't make someone else feel bad because something terrible happen to you.
Quelle(n): Life is hard get over it - Mr WarriorLv 7vor 1 Jahrzehnt
"I didn't know what it was like to be her"
"she'd gone through so much sh*t" in her life.
These are the comments she said to you. She is 100% correct in her statements. YOU dont know what its like to be her. YOU dontknow the shite she went through in her life.
For that very REASON u need to understand her and empathise with her.
Not kick her to the curb and reject her.
Gentleman do not do that to rape victims. Grow up.
Edit: You could not have missed her point if u were standing right next to it. YOU touched a rape victim when she did not want to be touched.
A minor detail u left out of your orginal statement but crucial. It proves you were out of touch with her situation and not understanding. YOU got offended because a rape victim DID NOT want to be touched. Most people would be understanding in that situation. but you choose to take offense and think that she has the idea she is better than you. You are severely misguided. Have a nice day.
