my husbands ex wife is stalking him!!!?

Your husband will have to disassociate himself from her even if it means no myspace or face book participation for a few years. Also someone he or you think you might be able to trust could be fueling her delusions - not to say they are purposely trying to betray you and him. Even asking how she is could make her think (because she wants to) that he cares.

If he has not children or any reason to be involved with her, he should write a letter to cease and desist letter usually reserved for collection agents. He should not be mean or purposely try to make her feel bad, but he should be to the point. STOP - our marriage is over and I am happy and have moved on with my life, you should also, otherwise you are harassing me!

Stalkers like fuel in their fire so if she thinks she is upsetting you, it will only encourage her to continue. If you have an online page up - take it down - you do not have to compete against her because there is nothing there - good luck. If all else fails you will have to have a stronger case against her for an protective order.

I think she is nuts and he should tell her to leave him alone or he'll take a restraining order out on her. If that doesn't get rid of her then follow through on the restraining order and if she carries on she'll be arrested.

That *****!

You can ignore it or do something about it. Maybe a restraining order. If it continues your husband may succunb to her wonton charms or it'll just escalate.

sounds like his ex has a hard time letting go.

my crazy ex has been stalking myself and the new wife for six years.. they get nuts sometimes

she sounds deranged. how long they been seperated/?