am I wrong to feel this way?

I know that you are scared of the fact of your heart attack but why do you question your death..

there is a famous quote saying" it is not how much you live.. It is how you live that is important" So, be positive and everybody has a problem these days there are no one perfect to look out for.. Be confident that you have come out of a critical level heart attack.. not worry about it and if a girl comes to you she will be proud of the fact that you have come out of such situation, rather that worry about it.. So DUDE chill out and Be PROUD of your self, that you made it ..

This is what you do on a second or third date (cause I assume that at that stage you like each other). You say, "I don't want to make a big deal about this - but I just want to tell you that about a year ago I had a pretty serious heart attack - I had to have surgery. I got through it all ok and have really worked hard to take care of myself. I eat much better now and I work out regularly. I can do anything anyone else can do, and I feel a lot better now than before I got sick, but I just wanted to tell you."

Like you said there are no gaurantees - live your life, keep honest and don't worry so much about stuff - based on what you wrote, you'll have no trouble finding someone special.

Your thinking too much, you shouldnt think so much and focus more on having fun than holy crap what will happen if this happens, well possibly it will be sheit if something bad would happen but then again at least u wont be alone. So your choice is to think about this problem to death or just shove it aside and enjoy life theres plenty to experience and heck if you meed the right partner then that is awesome in it self so u can enjoy that.

People come with problems and ask heck is this the right person for me, why people ask this is they have no clue what they want but are more influenced by what society says is the ideal partner those partners are like impossible to find someone perfect everone has some problem, its up to individuals to work on themselves. not think a partner will fix that, cause u are here for yourself not for someone else, blaming others wont fix anything either.

Hey man, no offense, but you're thinking way too much.

And out of all honesty that's hypocritical for me to say because I think about things just as much as you do.

Listen, if you want to find a woman who will make you happy, then just wait for somebody to notice who you are and what a great and creative guy you are, man.

I know that's what everybody tells you and it may sound very naive, but it's actually very true.

The inside is what counts the most.

What I always say is, "A watermelon has a rough exterior and it may be hard to get around sometimes, but when you get to the center...isn't it worth getting through the surface?"

Think about it... if they really care about your, they will get over what has happened in the past and learn to accept that you are trying to make changes in your life for the better.

I know you said that women say you are attractive, but I thought that the little thing I said would help you understand more what I'm saying.

...Oh, by the way...I'm only 16.

That's why I told you last..

Can't judge a book by what society says of it.

Hope everything works out for you, man.

Have a great day.

Like you said, none of us can guarantee we have another day, far less an hour on this Earth. You survived a heart-attack, an open heart surgery and have been alive for 42 years!!! Your a funny, empathetic and caring guy. The fact that you've had a heart attack won't put the girls off. It shows them the battler that you are!!! Now go out and enjoy the rest of your life be happy for who you are and what you've accomplished!!! =D

In a way, you're wrong, but your feeling is understandable and often expected. The thing is, you're trying to live a healthier life style. Your heart might not be in top notch shape, but you aren't sitting on your butt all day eating cheetos. A woman will often fall for a guy that has had surgeries such as yours, and will continue her love for him, because he chooses to live a healthy lifestyle. Therefore, she won't have a problem being with you if she knew you were prolonging your life by living healthy.

Why did he kiss you. Did he %. up a sign that made him think of you have been fascinated. And to call him a jerk and forget approximately him and cope with him terrible because of the fact he become a bad kisser and you probably didn't wish him to kiss you. provide me a destroy. sometime karma will chew you interior the ***. And sure you're incorrect, way incorrect.

we all have our inhibitions..but if we let them get in our way all the time.. where would we end up

if you meet someone and it comes up about your heart.. if shes not open to loving someone knowing tomorrow isn't guaranteed.. then why bother loving her?

In my religion, we believe that everyone is born with a soul mate. If she is destined to be with u, then nothing else matter.

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