Have any of you ...?

After I recovered from a dead faint you mean ?

Darned if I know.

That is way outside of what I know or have even considered.

Actually, the other children would be your half-siblings.

And... I'm the prouduct of a secret life.

My oldest sister is 34 and I'm 17... she's known about me since I was a baby though. She choose to accept it and to love me with everything she has. She's become like a mother to me and we have a beautiful relationship because of the "mistake" our father made. My other two siblings have however not been so accepting and it hurts, so very badly. I feel rejected by a part of my family.

So, what I can say is... I would feel very betrayed if I found out my father had done this but I would embrace the circumstances.

Good luck.

not really when i was 45, but when i was about 14 a lady with two girls of my age (twins) came to my house looking for my mom, later on i found that they were my sisters. Then when i was older than that my mom told me that a lady we've been visiting for years when i was a little girl was my dad's ex girlfriend and she had about 3 kids (My mom would visit her because they were friends and my dad has left her with 3 kids and didn't know my mom and us (me and my sister) ever existed). Since i was little i knew about another brother i had, he is older than me, the twin girls are about my age and the other 3 kids are older and younger than me. My dad died when i was 7 so i was never able to ask why, i mean it was fine if he wanted to do his life without my mom (by divorcing) but why cheating on her??? why hiding something soo important. I'm 20 now still wondering if there are any more brothers or sisters that i don't know about...

if i were you , i would be glad to know that i have other sisters and brothers . why not ? it could gave me more love from them and also i could give them love .