When is it over?

At this point you are pretty much there. The biggest issue I see is there is no effort to fix it or change it. Plus it just is getting worse. You know it is over when you have done all you can do and there is nothing left to do to fix things.

It is over when you give up.

I would sit him down when he is in a good mood and ask him why this happens. Is he leaving to cheat on you? Where does he go when he leaves? If it is not you, then it is obviously him, so is he opposed to getting help? If you really want this to work, then you both have to learn how to fight better.

When things start to escalate, stop. Fight debate style. Give him the first 60 seconds to state his side, then you give your 60 seconds worth. Then try to figure out a compromise.

Don't leave during an argument. Stay there and go to separate rooms for awhile, then when you are cooled off, talk about it.

Married couples will fight, but learning to resolve things by compromise are a must for a long lasting relationship.

What a rough situation. Your husband sounds like he's has some issues that he needs to work out. Is he willing to go to therapy with you? If he says it is nothing that you are or are not doing, what is it? Why does he get so mad? You both need to find the answers to these questions in order to make your marriage work. I understand why you would consider leaving him. You need to do what is best for you. Good luck!

It's over . Tell him the next time he vanishes that you will do the same and change your cell . He's immature and playing games like a little boy . Stick by it and go live your life . He's going to do that every time he wants to be single for a few days . The 3rd time should have been the charm . He's over-stayed his welcome in any hope for marriage now . That leopard isn't going to change his spots . Best of luck to you .

well i think he is cheating behind ur back...

cuz when guys accused that ur cheating, its when they are afraid that u might find out that they are the one who is cheating, so they accused u. also, are you in an abusive relationship/unhealthy relationship... if he doesint turn on his phone than he might be doing other stuff. but on the other hand, wat made you two to have a fight? did you do something that pissed him off... when he forces u to leave was it the first few days and weeks that u both got married... well you should try to talk to him and if things dont work out that it all depends on you....

It sounds like he may be the one cheating.

A two year marriage is too short of time to be dealing with this type of nonsense.

It seems that he starts fight so that he can leave and not feel guilty about it ,and I wouldn't be surprised if you find out he cheating on you. you can do better than that don't put up with it or he'll think that it is acceptable.Good luck

There's only 1 thing you can do to prevent it from happening to you again...LEAVE. It sounds as though its been over for a while. Don't put up with any more of his emotional and verbal abuse. Let him play games with someone else, not YOU. You don't deserve that.

Have you ever heard the phrase, the first one who smelt it dealt it, well, if he is acting like that, more than likely it is him who had or is having an affair. It's over, dump him and move on.

Is he the one cheating? Leave him.