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Does she know how much I value her friendship?

I was going to go out (well we was hanging out a lot) with this guy for about a week. Well, my best friend said she was sorry but she had feelings for him and please not to hate her. He had feelings for her, and said, please dont hate me. I was happy for them really but I was hurt that they thought I would hate them.

Well, a couple nights ago, when me, her, a friend of mine, a few friends of hers was all in chat together she pops up saying their engaged...after a month! I know, sometimes faster but still. I asked him if it is true, he said yes. She then later told me she only said that cause my friend was being really mean to her. I didn't think my friend was. I told her what he said and she said they talked about it.

She said he said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with her and she said that would be nice...doesn't that sound like a proposal to you? I know I dont normally do questions this long but its complicated. I am hurt by both parties, I dont know what to do. Help!

Update:

She's in her 20's like me, and I can't ignore the guy cuz i work with him.

3 Antworten

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  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt
    Beste Antwort

    Ignore the 2 of them and treasure ur other friendships! *Huggies*

  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    Getting engaged after a month is immature and ridiculous. Just ignore them. How old are they? Honestly. A month of time is nothing. Time can change them in the blink of an eye...

    People these days. Jeez.

    And, uh, no, that doesn't sound like a proposal to me at all. I've said and have had the same thing said to me before, and it's not the same as "I want to marry you" or "will you marry me?" That wasn't a yes or no question. Saying "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" still has plenty of openings. Just because you want to doesn't mean you're going to.

    It's a nice fantasy. But she shouldn't get too excited.

  • vor 1 Jahrzehnt

    what age is she???? This has only to do with their personal lives. If i were you i wouldn't get involved, alot of things happen like that and often boys get in the way, it is best to just ignore the guy and still be friends with her. Just say hey look i will leave this thing to my friend it is not my problem get on with ur own life

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