Marriage: Couch Potato and Outgoing?

i live in florida and love the beach too and all my husband wants to do is play Playstation 3 from morning till nite! maybe me and u should go to the beach and leave the boys home!

Take an interest with him and play along on the X Box. My husband loves to play poker and his video games. Your husband is probably like mine, he works very hard. They deserve some "my time" too. I mean when your playing that game with him you need to REALLY get into it. I mean if he is playing a race car game with you, just jump up and pretend like your driving a race car. This will probably, as weird as this sounds, be a turn on to him. After an hour or so, say something like "WEW babe that was awesome, how about let's take a little break and take a walk on the beach" I am more than ninety percent sure, he will follow. Now, mind you don't let your whole life be about an X-Box 360. If he stays on it abit longer than he should walk in front of the TV naked, I am sure this will distract him, I know, because I have done this lol.

Just by doing stuff without him. Maintain your interests outdoors and when he finally gets off the couch and notices, you will be busy filling your day with fun things and satisfying yourself. You will have to continue to do this for a while though because he won't really notice in a day or two. Just continue to live. Go out and do what you do and he'll see that he's not keeping you inside with him. You are actually tricking him into coming outside with you! That's where the fun is right? Curiosity will bring him to where you are. Good luck

My husband needs excercise, I signed up for the gym and he wants to do the same thing now because I come back all excited about my day at the gym. Maybe you should try going out and coming back and telling him about your day or even sitting down and talking to him and letting him know how you feel and how you would really enjoy having him spend time with you .

I think when couples spend valued time together they appreciate each other more. ALso another thing you may want to try is to join HIM for a bit and share that interest that he has.

Invite him. He's probably thinking "How can I get her to be more interested in Xbox??" So maybe compromise. He joins you sometimes at the beach and you join him occasionally on the couch. Other times, you can just do your own seperate things and meet up later.

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I don't think you can!!! My husband is the same way. he always complains that we don't do anything together but he never wants to do anything so I do stuff with my kids and friends and he doesn't really talk to anyone besides family or co-workers when he had a job

what does that mean ? He cant be even once a week outgoing ? He should get help, nothing wrong with vid games but it can get addictive.

I plan activities with my husband. I try to plan something we will both enjoy. He does the same. I dont expect him to do everything I do, and neither does he, we have different interests.

maybe you can't...you might have to do some of these fun things with friends.

i love being outside too. my wife is an indoor person. so i feel your pain!