Is this too much for Valentine's Day?

Question

I've been seeing a woman for over 3 months now.  We spend at least two evenings together every weekend and sometimes the days too - depending on our schedules.  I enjoy her company and the feeling seems to be mutual.

Valentine's Day is coming and I wanted to do something special - I'm taking her to a restraunt we both loved, I ordered her special purple roses (it's her favorite color), she LOVES fish and I happened upon a fish necklace (gold with little sapphires and a diamond eye) - it was on clearance, so I got a great deal.... and I'm picking up a box of special dark chocolate candies from this great local confectionary.

Am I doing too much?

Dan · Accepted Answer

Do you think it's too much?

I think it really depends on how both of you feel about one another. Is the feeling mutual? I'm sure you don't want her to feel embarassed if she only you got a smaller thing. I'm not quite sure, though. If you're feeling pretty confident about your gifts, then go ahead and give them to her.

I would just hold back on giving her the necklace. Wait till her birthday or some other holiday. You don't want to scare her off.

Anonym · Answer

It's a little risky doing ALL those things.  You're either gonna hit a home run or strike out.  What I mean is that if she really is into you as much you are her, then it's great and should come off great.  Maybe even take things to the next level.  But there's also a chance all this at once on Valentines day could overwhelm her and scare her.  It's either a big hit or a miss.  I'd keep it to a nice dinner and maybe a hand written card or poem or something.  Good luck!

Anonym · Answer

Don't ditch the dark chocolates! That's the best part! ;)

I think it sounds like a lovely Valentine's day. 

Not too much. Not too little. Just right.

And here's the best part .... if she's the right girl for you, she'll think so, too. 

We just can't go wrong when we do what feels good to us, and the person we are with is truly interested in us.

Only if they are NOT really interested in us, will our gifts be judged as too much or too little, etc....

Have a fantastic Valentine's day!

HotJewels · Answer

Not at all, that is very nice of you and it seems that you enjoy doing this !

Woman love being treated special on Valentines Day !
She will be a lucky girl !

C · Answer

Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years and all i get is a card. if i want us to do something, its up to me to organize it. I would be grateful if I got some flowers but that will never happen. I think you are doing slightly to much maybe you should leave out the chocs! She is a lucky women.

Buff · Answer

Here's my advice:
Listen to your heart. When you had the idea to get roses, happened upon the necklace and thought of chocolates, your heart led you to believe that you should get them for her.

Trust yourself and she will see that confidence shine through and be attracted to the thoughtful person you seem to be!

Best wishes!

? · Answer

Th necklace seems a bit much for only 3 months of dating. You don't want her to think you're moving too fast. But the rest of your plan is fine.

sexychocTexas · Answer

ok speaking from experience

u are doing tooo much i understand u must be into her
but u cant over do it

the restaurant is a great idea 
the flowers is great too

chocolate might be ok  


THATS IT

the other things
save it for another occasion like for next month
surprise with the necklace

angeleyes213 · Answer

yah i agree with everyone cancle the chocolates keep the resteraunt and teh roses n necklace shoe you listen to her and you know what she lieks everything is great jus scrach the whole chocolate thing out

Costarricense · Answer

If you plan on doing this every Valentines Day, then no.

Most women will expect you to do something just as special every year!

Is this too much for Valentine's Day?

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