Your opinion?

I was on this teenage partially dating site for about a year now.

Now a guy my age found me over the site and we have been chatting ever since...for about 5 months now.

i live in Aethiopia and he in germany. in germany he lives just 2 minutes away from my house. and i plan on meeting him in summer. we have chatted, skyped, been on the phone....saw each other over webcam, he has met my friends i have met his...

we are both 17.

So now that i want to meet him in germany, my parents insist on meeting him first. i totally understand why, but, shouldnt i meet him first, and see how he is before he meets my parents? i know my dad, he starts askin awkward questions...

But i doubt that this 17 year old guy is a rapist or something, the village we are in is calm and friendly.

so what do u think i should or shouldnt do first? step by step?

but i still want to meet the guy without embarrassing anybody.